Morgan Wider
Wardrobe Styling Consultant
Key Insights
- Clothing sizing is purposely confusing and based on brand target demographics, not your body
- Your wardrobe reflects your inner thoughts and self-worth
- Investing in beautiful undergarments honors your femininity and the parts that will create your baby
- Holding onto clothes that don't serve you reflects lack of trust in the universe to provide
Actionable Advice
- Ask yourself what you want to be known for before building your wardrobe
- Go through your closet item by item to clear mental, emotional, and physical space for the new
- Invest in supportive, beautiful undergarments that honor your body
- Find a good tailor since clothes are made for fit models, not the masses
From This Conversation
Teachings 8
Your wardrobe is a reflection of how you think about yourself - if you don't love yourself, it's impossible to dress well because you won't like anything you put on
Morgan Wider explains that clients who don't love themselves or think they're worthy find it impossible to dress because anything she puts them in, they don't like - not because of the clothes, but because they don't like themselves.
Clothing sizing is purposely designed to be confusing because it's based on each brand's specific target customer, not your actual body
Morgan Wider reveals from her corporate experience at Gap Inc that a size 6 fits differently across Gap, Banana Republic, and Old Navy because each brand targets different customers with different lifestyles and body types.
When you're trying to conceive, you must be connected to your feminine energy, and your wardrobe is a direct expression of your femininity
Rosanne Austin explains that on the fertility journey, women often disconnect from personal artistic expression through wardrobe, but this feeds directly into feminine energy which is essential when trying to conceive.
Holding onto clothes that no longer serve you sends a message to God that you don't trust her enough to take care of all your needs
Morgan Wider explains that hoarding clothes reflects fear of the future and clinging to the past, preventing you from acknowledging who you are right now and trusting that something bigger and better awaits.
Your bra sits over your heart chakra, so wearing an unsupportive or old bra means you don't think you deserve to be supported
Morgan Wider teaches that investing in beautiful lingerie honors your femininity and the parts of your body that will make your baby, connecting physical support to emotional self-worth.
The first question to ask when building your wardrobe is: what do you want to be known for and what do you want people to think when you walk into a room?
Morgan Wider explains that 60% of first impressions are based on image, determining whether people trust you, like you, and feel safe with you, so clarity on your personal brand is essential.
Self-respect feels good on you - investing in your wardrobe changes how people treat you and how you treat yourself
Morgan Wider shares the story of Hannah, a mother of two professionals who shared a closet with her 9-year-old daughter while her husband's clothes filled the master closet. After investing in herself, Hannah texted that people were treating her differently and self-respect felt good on her.
Living luxe on your fertility journey means having your emotional, physical, spiritual, and intellectual needs met rather than being in starvation mode
Rosanne Austin explains that when women starve themselves of pleasure and support, they can't be the vibrant soul needed to welcome a baby, emphasizing that a life-affirming attitude is necessary when trying to call in a life.
Episode
EP88 Fearless Femme: The Worthy Wardrobe with Morgan Wider
2020-11-02 · 39 min
