Claire
18 months journey from UK · Fearlessly Fertile Method
The Transformation
Before
Felt like a complete failure as a woman, believed her body was letting her down, consumed by negative statistics and fear
Key Shift
Realized what child wants to come to a mother who feels like a failure, decided to focus on being in the 1-2% who succeed
After
Confident in her body and decisions, advocating for herself medically, living joyfully while pursuing treatment
In summary: Claire's story demonstrates that ivf success at 44, 1-2% odds overcome, and pcos and endometriosis. She conceived IVFly at 44 despite PCOS and Endometriosis after a 18 months journey.
Teachings7
Your body knows its own timing better than medical protocols, and advocating for that knowing can be crucial for success
Claire insisted on doing an ERA test because she felt her body needed extra time, which showed she needed the transfer 2 days later than protocol suggested, leading to her successful pregnancy.
▶ 21:21Success on this journey doesn't require perfection - it requires showing up with resilience despite imperfect circumstances
Claire ate fast food for breakfast on transfer day, arrived late due to clinic confusion, and still got pregnant, proving that rigid control and perfection aren't necessary for success.
▶ 22:58You can maintain joy and live fully while going through fertility treatment instead of putting life on hold
Claire and her partner did more activities in the year of treatment than they'd ever done before, went on holiday during the process, and she grew her business to reach income goals in less than a year.
▶ 18:18Strong mindset work provides resilience that extends beyond fertility into all areas of life
Claire achieved her business income goals in less than a year and maintains confidence in medical advocacy during her pregnancy, showing how fertility mindset work transforms overall life approach.
▶ 16:01Medical gaslighting of women's symptoms is real, and you must advocate for proper diagnosis and treatment
Claire had PCOS and endometriosis symptoms for years but was dismissed by doctors who made her feel like she was 'making it up' until she finally got proper diagnosis and treatment at 43.
▶ 7:04Having the right mindset foundation allows you to wait for optimal timing rather than acting from desperation
At 44, Claire confidently said they could wait another month for transfer to go on holiday first, and when ERA test results were delayed 6 weeks, she saw it as giving her body time to recover.
▶ 18:16Building belief in yourself and your outcome takes consistent daily work over months, not overnight transformation
Claire worked on her mindset daily for 6 months after finishing the program in January 2022 before reaching the point where she knew it would work, leading to pregnancy in October 2022.
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Reframes3
Age-related fertility decline is largely a myth perpetuated by fear-mongering statistics
Claire collected 18 eggs at 44 years old, with 14 fertilizing and making it to day 5, directly contradicting the narrative that fertility 'falls off a cliff' at 40.
▶ 17:03When facing single-digit odds, you can choose to focus on being in the percentage that succeeds rather than the percentage that fails
Claire was told she had a 1-2% chance of success and responded 'somebody's gotta be in that one to two percent, so it might as well be me,' leading to pregnancy on her first transfer.
▶ 13:35What child wants to come to a mother who feels like a failure - your emotional state matters for conception
Claire had her breakthrough moment when she realized 'what child wants to come to a mother who feels like this about themselves?' and immediately sought help, leading to her transformation and pregnancy.
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Quotable Moments6
“somebody's gotta be in that one to two percent, so it might as well be me”
— Claire13:35“what child wants to come to a mother who feels like this about themselves?”
— Claire10:29“eighteen eggs collected and I was forty four at this point”
— Claire17:03“it's a myth that your fertility drops off the cliff at forty. It's absolute nonsense”
— Claire16:53“we can wait another month”
— Claire18:16“if I can do it, then you can do it. I don't have any superpowers”
— Claire37:01
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