From PCOS and Miscarriage to Miracle #2: Kara’s Story
Kara shares how she overcame PCOS and miscarriage to conceive her second child at 26 weeks pregnant after transforming her mindset and releasing control through Rosanne Austin's Fearlessly Fertile Method.
Breakthroughs 1
Learning to receive help instead of fighting treatment opens you up to possibilities rather than staying locked in comparison
Kara initially fought IVF because other women conceived naturally, but learned to accept medical help when she stopped comparing and started receiving
Teachings 3
The way we do one thing is the way we do everything - patterns in work and relationships directly impact fertility
Kara discovered her controlling patterns affected her marriage, parenting, and fertility journey until she addressed them holistically
When you're struggling with secondary infertility, if you don't have your head on straight, you're not actually present with the children you have
Kara realized she was missing precious moments with her daughter while obsessing over trying to conceive, affecting her presence as a mother
The mindset work you need to get pregnant is the same work you need when you get pregnant - things don't magically become easy
Kara used the fearless pregnancy techniques like visualizing pink light around her baby during scans to manage new pregnancy anxieties after previous miscarriage
Perspectives 2
You don't get to shrink back from your own authority as a woman - your husband already believes in you, so why wouldn't you trust yourself?
When Kara hesitated about investing in herself, her husband told her 'if you want to do it, you're going to do it' - he already trusted her judgment
Statistics and doctor numbers are not permanent - things can change each cycle when you stop making them have authority over you
Kara learned to dismiss concerning blood work results and Google comparisons, saying 'who cares, it's just a number' during her IUI and IVF cycles
Quotable Moments 4
“You're a grown ass woman and your husband already believes in you. Like, why would you shrink back from your own authority as a woman who trusts herself?”
— Rosanne Austin“The way we do one thing is the way we do everything. And if you're blocking receiving what it is that you desire from your partner at work, things like that, do you think you're not doing that everywhere?”
— Rosanne Austin“When you're in that place of comparison, you're not in your clarity. You're not in your power.”
— Rosanne Austin“Everything else, Cara, is a piece of cake. Go start a business. Go get another degree, whatever it is that you wanna do because you're proving to yourself that when I put my mind to something, I can absolutely do it.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
Can you overcome PCOS and miscarriage to have a second baby?
“You basically went from listening to this crazy lady on a podcast that your neighbor recommended to doing this program... and now you're twenty six weeks pregnant.”
— Rosanne Austin
Yes, Kara overcame PCOS and miscarriage to conceive her second child by transforming her mindset, releasing control patterns, and learning to receive medical help through IVF.
How do you decide between natural conception and fertility treatments?
“When you're in that place of comparison, you're not in your clarity. You're not in your power. You're allowing what other people are doing to have authority over you instead of you deciding, hey, you know what, for where my husband and I are at, this actually feels good to me.”
— Rosanne Austin
Make decisions from possibility rather than comparison. Stop asking 'why can't I do what others do' and start asking what feels right for your unique situation and partnership.
What mindset shifts help with secondary infertility after miscarriage?
“Nobody wants to think about that, but I think it's you're raising a very important point because you don't get that time back. So you get to choose how you're showing up.”
— Rosanne Austin
Focus on being present with existing children, release control over timing, and shift from 'things happen to us' to 'things happen for us.' Write down your vision and trust that your baby will find you when ready.
How long does it take to transform fertility mindset?
“People think I'm messing around when I say I work with women who are committed to getting and staying pregnant in the next twelve months. And you're living proof again that that is possible.”
— Rosanne Austin
Significant transformation can happen within 90 days of consistent daily practice, with full results typically within 12 months. Kara went from rock bottom to 26 weeks pregnant in exactly one year.
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Key Points 6
The way we do one thing is the way we do everything - patterns in work and relationships directly impact fertility
When you're struggling with secondary infertility, if you don't have your head on straight, you're not actually present with the children you have
You don't get to shrink back from your own authority as a woman - your husband already believes in you, so why wouldn't you trust yourself?
Statistics and doctor numbers are not permanent - things can change each cycle when you stop making them have authority over you
Learning to receive help instead of fighting treatment opens you up to possibilities rather than staying locked in comparison
The mindset work you need to get pregnant is the same work you need when you get pregnant - things don't magically become easy
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