More Babies = More AWESOME: Natalia's Story
Natalia shares her journey from 2 years of struggle to conceiving naturally at 40+ with PCOS and thyroid issues after completing Rosanne's 8-week program. She conceived the week after finishing the program and discusses postpartum challenges including physical health issues that taught her about receiving help and dropping perfectionism.
Breakthroughs 3
Control-based fertility rituals come from fear and create obsession that makes life miserable
Natalia did acupuncture, TCM, perfect diet, no drinking for 2 years - everything revolved around having a baby and she wasn't enjoying time with her existing daughters
Building trust in yourself and faith in a higher power allows you to relax and receive conception
Natalia conceived the night neighbors interrupted their planned romantic evening because she chose to relax, have a beer, and trust instead of controlling the situation
Self-worth based on productivity creates a 'human doing' rather than human being mentality
Natalia struggled with postpartum tendinitis because she pushed through pain trying to be a 'super mom of three' instead of listening to her body's need for rest
Teachings 5
Structure, consistency, and community are what women need for sustainable change on the fertility journey - not one-on-one coaching
Rosanne explains after years of coaching that women spend too much time siloed and alone in shame, and that group coaching provides the necessary elements for integration
Lack and scarcity stories about money, time, other people, and shame make us small and prevent conception
Natalia was shaming herself for wanting a third child when she already had two, telling herself she was too old and selfish
Asking for help is not weakness - it's a critical sign of strength and leadership
Rosanne challenges Natalia's resistance to asking for help during postpartum struggles, explaining that having a big call on your life takes a village
Pregnancy is just the beginning - you need support through 40 weeks and beyond into motherhood
Rosanne explains why she takes clients through the whole journey, not just conception, as Natalia needed continued support through pregnancy fears and postpartum challenges
Adopting a growth mindset means believing challenges are happening FOR you, not TO you
Natalia transformed her postpartum physical struggles into opportunities for greater compassion, presence with her children, and allowing her husband to step up
Quotable Moments 4
“For anything to be sustainable and for us to truly integrate the lessons that are gonna help us change our lives, you need structure, consistency, and community.”
— Rosanne Austin“Asking for help is not weakness. It's actually one of the key signs of strength... The idea that any of us gets anywhere without help, that's just ego.”
— Rosanne Austin“I dropped the ball, Rosanne, and it felt so good to drop the ball for the first time of my life.”
— Natalia“This is happening for a reason and that you're only gonna get better and stronger and that you're gonna be a new version and a better version of yourself after this journey.”
— Natalia
Questions This Video Answers
Can you get pregnant naturally with PCOS over 40
“I was already fourteen, and I was telling myself in my head, I'm too old. It has always been difficult. Now it's gonna be even harder.”
— Natalia
Yes, Natalia conceived naturally at 40+ with PCOS and thyroid issues after releasing control-based fertility rituals and building trust in herself through Rosanne's program.
How long does it take to change your fertility mindset
“You did that, Natalia, in less than a year... when you want to make a change, you can make a change very quickly. It doesn't have to take forever, and you're living proof of that.”
— Rosanne Austin
Significant mindset shifts can happen quickly - Natalia went from 2 years of misery to conceiving the week after completing an 8-week program by releasing control and shame.
Is it selfish to want another baby when you already have children
“Think about how you were shaming yourself for wanting more, like, how crazy, you know, do we get? Like, our self sabotage pattern is insidious.”
— Rosanne Austin
No, wanting more children is not selfish or greedy. These are shame-based stories that create lack and scarcity mindset that actually prevents conception.
Why does fertility control and perfectionism backfire
“I was so afraid of not getting pregnant that the way to tackle that was to be extremely controlling over everything... It was all based on this control control about everything, and it became an obsession.”
— Natalia
Control-based fertility rituals come from fear and create obsession that disconnects you from joy and presence, while relaxation and trust allow the body to conceive naturally.
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Key Points 8
Structure, consistency, and community are what women need for sustainable change on the fertility journey - not one-on-one coaching
Lack and scarcity stories about money, time, other people, and shame make us small and prevent conception
Control-based fertility rituals come from fear and create obsession that makes life miserable
Building trust in yourself and faith in a higher power allows you to relax and receive conception
Self-worth based on productivity creates a 'human doing' rather than human being mentality
Asking for help is not weakness - it's a critical sign of strength and leadership
Pregnancy is just the beginning - you need support through 40 weeks and beyond into motherhood
Adopting a growth mindset means believing challenges are happening FOR you, not TO you
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