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Linda

8 years journey · Fearlessly Fertile Method

Conceived at 47natural

The Transformation

Before

Type A control freak perfectionist who was negative, comparing herself to others, and believed she couldn't have abundance in both love and baby

Key Shift

Learning to surrender, slow down, use intuition instead of forcing things, and believing in her worthiness without achievements

After

Relaxed, abundant, trusting divine timing, supporting other women, living in gratitude and openness to surprises

In summary: Linda's story demonstrates that natural conception at 47, success after 4 miscarriages, and two babies in 40s. She conceived naturally at 47 despite Advanced Maternal Age and Recurrent Miscarriage after a 8 years journey.

Breakthroughs1

  • Your achievements are not tied to your self-worth - you don't have to earn your worthiness through fertility success

    Linda struggled with needing to achieve having a baby with her own eggs, but when she let herself be vulnerable and use donor eggs, her partner admired her sacrifice and their relationship deepened

    19:14

Teachings6

  • Mindset is healthcare - it brings your body and mind into harmony and empowers you to see new opportunities and think strategically

    Linda was told she was 'too old' at 39 and again at 42, had 4 miscarriages, but through mindset work conceived via donor egg at 45 and naturally at 47

    2:03
  • When you are different, you make different decisions and your different decisions create different results

    Linda transformed from a control-driven type A perfectionist to someone who surrendered and trusted, leading to two successful pregnancies after years of failure

    2:23
  • You need to make room for your baby - we can't be doing a million things and expect to just have a baby on the side

    Linda struggled for years to slow down at work and was achievement-oriented, but when she finally made room and stepped back from her Type A patterns, she became pregnant

    26:12
  • If it's meant for you, you can't lose it - you're not gonna run out of time

    Linda held onto this belief through her journey from age 39 to 47, which helped her let go of timeline pressure and ultimately conceive naturally at 47

    54:22
  • Slowing down is essential to intercept negative thought patterns and listen to your intuition

    Linda learned to slow down from her Type A patterns, which allowed her to use intuition and make strategic decisions that led to two successful pregnancies

    53:01
  • Health testing is crucial even if you've had success before - your body changes over time

    Linda discovered she had MTHFR gene mutation and a blood clotting disorder after 4 miscarriages, despite having conceived easily at 34 with her first child

    28:06

Reframes3

  • Stop trying to make your baby come in the way you want - you don't know how the baby's gonna come, it might be better than what you've imagined

    Linda opened her heart to donor eggs after 4 miscarriages with her own eggs, which led not only to her son but also created a community of support for other women and ultimately a natural pregnancy at 47

    14:52
  • Your baby is trying so hard to come to you - miscarriages can be signs that your baby wants to come but not in that particular way

    After Linda's 4th miscarriage, this reframe helped her feel gratitude and see it as a message to pivot to donor eggs rather than falling into despair

    16:09
  • Donor conception creates abundance and community, not limitation - your family grows into relationships you never would have had

    Linda started a Facebook group for donor egg families in her city, became a resource for other women through her therapist, and found her family expanded into a supportive community

    23:28

Quotable Moments7

  • Mindset is health care. Mindset is the thing that brings their body and their mind into harmony.

    Rosanne Austin2:03
  • When you are different, you make different decisions and your different decisions create different results.

    Rosanne Austin2:23
  • Stop trying to make this baby come in the way you want. You don't know how the baby's gonna come. It might not be the way you want it. It might be better, something you've never imagined.

    Rosanne Austin14:52
  • Your baby is trying so hard to come to you.

    Rosanne Austin16:09
  • If it's meant for me, I can't lose it. I'm not gonna run out of time.

    Linda54:22
  • I'm worthy without my achievements.

    Linda20:27
  • It's so much better when you don't control it. It's so much better.

    Linda59:20

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