Suzanne
4+ years journey from Singapore · Fearlessly Fertile Method
The Transformation
Before
Feeling like a passenger on her journey, devastated and fragile after 5 miscarriages and repeated treatment failures
Key Shift
Stopped being a passenger and took control by building a comprehensive team, researching treatments, and advocating with her doctor
After
Confident and in control, working collaboratively with her medical team and open to multiple paths to parenthood
In summary: Suzanne's story demonstrates that overcame 5 miscarriages, beat recurrent ivf failure, and international treatment success. despite PCOS and Recurrent Miscarriage after a 4+ years journey.
Breakthroughs3
Stop being a passenger on your fertility journey and take control by building your own treatment team
Suzanne went from passively accepting doctor recommendations to researching recurrent loss treatments, bringing a list to her new doctor, and collaborating on her own treatment plan. Her doctor told her at delivery: 'This baby is here because of you. You came up with your own treatment plan.'
▶ 28:00Visualization creates laser focus and manifests real results when you get crystal clear about what you want
Suzanne visualized herself in yoga pants walking her daughter to school while pregnant. During the pandemic, working from home, she enacted this exact scenario in real life when it finally happened, saying 'this is just so powerful.'
▶ 30:00Taking strategic breaks from treatment can be more productive than constant cycling
After doing something every month in 2018, Suzanne took a 6-month break between March and September 2019. During this break, they had their happiest period and took a rejuvenating Italy vacation. The September transfer after the break resulted in their baby boy.
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Teachings3
When you're clear about your vision and open to different paths, you naturally relax because you know you'll figure it out
Suzanne and Bevan explored surrogacy and adoption as backup plans, which allowed them to go into their fifth transfer relaxed, saying 'this is it, and that's okay if it's it.' That transfer resulted in their baby boy after 4+ years of trying.
▶ 32:00Sometimes changing doctors isn't about medical competence - it's about what works for your mental state
Suzanne's first doctor helped them conceive their daughter but their relationship broke down after repeated losses. She said 'every time I step foot in that clinic, my heart sank' and they 'hated going' because it became 'the place where we got bad news.'
▶ 24:00Male partners often don't understand the magnitude of fertility struggles until they see how all-consuming it becomes
Bevan admitted: 'I don't think you get it at first. I kinda thought, well, is this just Sue being a little bit negative?' He said it took a long time to realize 'how all consuming it was' and that 'it affects everything - your relationship, work, financial situation.'
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Reframes2
You were the silver bullet on your fertility journey - not any single treatment or intervention
When Suzanne said there's no silver bullet in fertility, Rosanne challenged her: 'You actually proved that there was and that was you.' Suzanne had taken control, built her team, and created her own treatment plan.
▶ 39:00Ask yourself: if this was your existing child's health, would you sit quietly and nod, or would you research every angle?
This analogy helped Suzanne realize she'd been treating fertility like a passenger instead of an advocate. She then researched recurrent loss treatments and brought a comprehensive list to discuss with her new doctor.
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Quotable Moments5
“I would challenge one thing that you said, Suzanne, and it's this. You said there's no silver bullet, but you actually proved that there was and that was you.”
— Rosanne Austin39:00“This baby is here because of you. You came up with your own treatment plan. This baby wouldn't be here if it wasn't for her.”
— Suzanne37:00“Why are you being a passenger on this journey? If this was Ayrra's health, would you just sit there quietly and nod your head?”
— Rosanne Austin28:00“Every time I step foot in that clinic, my heart sank after twenty eighteen. His clinic was just like the place where we got bad news.”
— Suzanne24:00“I don't think you get it at first, really. I kinda thought, well, is this just Sue being a little bit negative on the situation?”
— Bevan12:30
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