Fertility Mindset: Is Bad Energy Blocking Your Baby?
Rosanne Austin explains how women can unknowingly repel their babies through negative energy despite doing all the right fertility actions. She provides a practical exercise to identify and shift the energy behind fertility actions.
Teachings 5
You can unknowingly repel your baby not through your actions, but through the energy you bring to those actions - doing treatments from fear, doubt, and resentment creates low vibrational results
Austin explains how two people can approach IVF differently - one with excitement and openness, another with resentment about cost and shame about needing treatment
We are energetic beings and the energy we put out determines what comes back to us - this is physics, not just new age thinking
References Dr. David Hawkins' map of consciousness showing different emotions correspond to different energy frequencies
Your baby resides at a high vibrational frequency of love, while fear, anxiety, lack and scarcity are low vibrational - there's a mismatch that prevents connection
Austin uses radio frequency analogy - you tune into different stations at different frequencies and get what you tune into
Create a list of all fertility actions you're taking and write why you're doing each one - this reveals the belief and energy fueling each behavior
Austin provides specific exercise: draw line down middle of paper, list actions on one side, reasons on the other to identify patterns
Resentment is one of the lowest vibrational emotions you can feel and will create results at that low frequency level
References Dr. David Hawkins' map of consciousness and Austin's personal experience of being more fertile naturally in her 40s than in her 30s with treatment
Perspectives 1
If you begrudge your fertility journey, you're sending the message to your baby 'I don't actually want you' - this creates a double binding message
Austin explains the contradiction between wanting a baby while resenting the work required to conceive
Quotable Moments 4
“You are the x factor. The energy that you are putting into this journey, the quality of that energy matters.”
— Rosanne Austin“If you're begrudging this journey, you're sending the message, baby, I don't actually want you. You are making me, a grown woman, work way too hard for you.”
— Rosanne Austin“You get what you expect and you get what you have the discipline to show up for every fucking day.”
— Rosanne Austin“Put your big girl panties on, mama. You have a baby that you wanna call in. Make sure that your energy matches what you want to call in.”
— Rosanne Austin
Questions This Video Answers
How can I tell if I'm repelling my baby with bad energy?
“You could even be trying to work on mindset. But if you have energy that's behind that, that is negative, expecting the worst, thinking everyone is out to get you, everybody is out to steal your money on this journey and you're suspicious, you're skeptical, and frankly, you just don't believe this can actually work for you, you are going to create those kind of results.”
— Rosanne Austin
Make a list of everything you're doing for fertility and write why you're doing each thing. Look for patterns of fear, resentment, lack, or scarcity in your reasons. If you're begrudging treatments, worried about costs, or approaching things from desperation rather than excitement, you may be operating from low vibrational energy.
Why does energy matter for fertility when it's just egg and sperm meeting?
“I know you might just be thinking that this journey is just about an egg and a sperm coming together, but they can do that all day in a lab at an IVF clinic and that does not result in a baby. You are the x factor. The energy that you are putting into this journey, the quality of that energy matters.”
— Rosanne Austin
While fertility clinics can make egg and sperm meet in a lab, that doesn't always result in a baby. You are the X factor, and the energy you bring matters because we are energetic beings. Your baby exists at a high vibrational frequency of love, so if you're operating from low vibrational emotions like fear and doubt, there's a mismatch.
Can negative energy really block pregnancy even if I'm doing everything right?
“So this is how you can have two people. One of them is going about this journey with fear, doubt, negativity and they create exactly the kind of results that you would expect to get in fear, doubt, and negativity. And then you can have another person going through their journey with faith, gratitude, joy, expectation, excitement, anticipation. And even though their numbers are worse, maybe they're older, maybe they've got a more terrible diagnosis, they're the ones that get pregnant naturally in the face of insane odds.”
— Rosanne Austin
Yes, according to Austin, you can be doing all the right treatments, diets, and protocols but still create poor results if your energy is based in fear, doubt, negativity, worry, comparison, and jealousy. She explains that two people can have the same treatment but get different results based on their energetic approach.
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Key Points 6
You can unknowingly repel your baby not through your actions, but through the energy you bring to those actions - doing treatments from fear, doubt, and resentment creates low vibrational results
We are energetic beings and the energy we put out determines what comes back to us - this is physics, not just new age thinking
Your baby resides at a high vibrational frequency of love, while fear, anxiety, lack and scarcity are low vibrational - there's a mismatch that prevents connection
Create a list of all fertility actions you're taking and write why you're doing each one - this reveals the belief and energy fueling each behavior
Resentment is one of the lowest vibrational emotions you can feel and will create results at that low frequency level
If you begrudge your fertility journey, you're sending the message to your baby 'I don't actually want you' - this creates a double binding message
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