Jamie overcame PCOS and endometriosis to conceive twins through IVF after transforming her victimhood mindset. She went from irregular cycles and fertility struggles to a successful first IVF cycle that resulted in identical twins - beating 2% odds.
JamieAge 35· IVF· TwinsBefore
Deep victimhood affecting every area of life, upset by pregnancy announcements, resentful of others' successes, didn't like who she had become
Key Shift
Recognized victim pattern, invested in mindset work, practiced daily manifestation journaling, surrendered to IVF help
After
Confident, empowered, trusting the process, open to signs, ready to receive help
Jamie's fertility journey began in 2019 when she went off birth control after 16 years and experienced severe cycle irregularity. After going months without periods and receiving a PCOS diagnosis, failed Clomid rounds, and various medications, she found herself spiraling into victim mode that affected every area of her life.
Recognizing her victim mentality was destroying her daily life, Jamie invested in mindset work through the Fearlessly Fertile Method. She practiced daily manifestation journaling using the 3-6-9 method and learned to surrender expectations while focusing on what she could control.
Initially resistant to IVF, Jamie's perspective shifted when she heard another client's story about mindset affecting treatment success. She surrendered her resistance, embraced receiving help, and approached IVF with confidence rather than fear.
Throughout her journey, Jamie remained open to spiritual signs including cardinals, feathers, and 11:11 sightings. When facing concerns about her lining thickness, spiritual guidance encouraged her to proceed, leading to exceptional IVF results with 42 eggs retrieved and 14 blastocysts.
Jamie's single embryo transfer resulted in identical twins when the embryo spontaneously split - a phenomenon that occurs in only 2% of day-five embryo transfers. Her transformation from victim to victor culminated in becoming pregnant with twins at 35, proving that mindset truly elevates medicine.
“If I was still in the mindset that I was, like, when I came into your program and I went into IVF like that, I don't think we would be talking right now.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 37:48
Mindset work helps you move out of victim mentality, surrender to receiving help, and stay focused on what you can control. Jamie transformed from victimhood to confidence, which she credits as essential to her IVF success with twins.
“I am like like, you know, every birth announcement, every pregnancy announcement, I'm, like, upset. I am like, why isn't this me? It it was, like, all about me. And it even got to the point where it was, like, affecting my everyday life.”
— Jamie▶ 7:12
When fertility challenges start affecting every area of your life - getting upset about others' successes, feeling resentful about situations unrelated to fertility, and not liking who you've become. This indicates victim mentality has spread beyond just fertility.
“But at some point, you just gotta be like, okay. Like, we gotta take the what ifs out because what if it works? What if it works the first time?”
— Jamie▶ 17:09
Surrender the resistance by focusing on positive what-ifs instead of catastrophic thinking. Accept that treatments are help, not failure. Jamie shifted from worrying about costs and failure to asking 'what if it works the first time?'
“I would write the same affirmation. I would do it three times in the morning, six times in the afternoon and nine times at night. Sometimes it felt like a chore, but I was like, this will put me in the right mindset.”
— Jamie▶ 22:58
Daily manifestation journaling with specific fertility affirmations helps reprogram your subconscious and attract positive outcomes. Jamie used the 3-6-9 method, writing affirmations like 'I'm fertile as fuck' multiple times daily throughout her successful IVF cycle.
“Numbers don't mean shit. You know? Like, you got pregnant naturally at forty two. Numbers be gone. You know? Like Yeah. They're just numbers. It's just data.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 45:14
Statistics provide general data but don't determine individual outcomes. Focus on being willing to be the outlier rather than letting percentages limit your possibilities. Jamie beat 2% odds for embryo splitting and succeeded with suboptimal lining thickness.
“I was like, I have no control of it. You know? I can't worry about what's not in my control. And that's, like, a big a big thing that I had to accept during this process.”
— Jamie▶ 19:34
Stay focused on what you can control - your diet, exercise, lifestyle, and mindset. Don't spiral into worst-case scenarios. Get support from trusted people who've been through similar experiences and look for spiritual guidance.
“I was like, I need to get the fuck out of this headspace. And sometimes, like, you can't do it on your own. Like, sometimes, you know, at least I can sit here and say I recognize it, but I needed help to get out, and I didn't know how.”
— Jamie▶ 11:48
When fertility struggles start affecting your personality and daily life beyond just reproduction. If you don't like who you've become, recognize victim patterns, and feel stuck in negative spirals, it's time to invest in mindset coaching.
Jamie's daily manifestation practice that supported her IVF twin success
Morning Practice
Write your chosen fertility affirmation 3 times in the morning
Afternoon Practice
Write the same affirmation 6 times in the afternoon
Evening Practice
Write the affirmation 9 times at night
Stay Consistent
Continue daily even when it feels like a chore - consistency creates the mindset shift
Choose Powerful Affirmations
Use statements like 'I'm fertile as fuck' or 'I can't wait to meet my baby' that feel empowering to you
Victimhood affects every area of life, not just fertility - recognizing this pattern is the first step to transformation
Jamie recognized she was playing victim not only about pregnancy but every aspect of life - getting upset about others' vacations to places she didn't even want to go. This self-awareness led her to seek mindset help.
When you surrender to receiving help and stop resisting IVF, success rates dramatically improve
Jamie heard another client's story about failing IVF because she wasn't in the right headspace. This prompted Jamie to fully accept IVF help, leading to 42 eggs retrieved, 14 blasts, 10 perfect embryos, and twins from her first transfer.
Daily manifestation journaling with specific affirmations creates powerful mindset shifts during fertility treatment
Jamie used the 3-6-9 manifestation method, writing affirmations like 'I'm fertile as fuck' three times morning, six times afternoon, nine times night. She filled up her first journal completely and credits this practice with her IVF success.
Signs and spiritual guidance become visible when you're open to receiving them during fertility challenges
Jamie saw cardinals (angels near), found bird feathers in her kitchen with no birds in the house, and consistently saw 11:11 throughout her journey. When she saw male and female cardinals together, her clinic called 30 minutes later saying all 10 embryos were perfectly normal.
Numbers and statistics don't determine your outcome - being willing to be the outlier changes everything
Jamie had only a 2% chance of her day 5 embryo splitting into twins, yet became that 2%. She also succeeded with a 6mm lining when clinics prefer 7.5mm+, proving statistics don't dictate individual results.
Investing in mindset work is essential - you can't go into fertility treatment with a victim mentality and expect success
Jamie explicitly states if she had gone into IVF with her previous victim mindset, she doesn't think she'd be pregnant with twins. Her mindset transformation through the program was crucial to her first-cycle IVF success.
Preparation and belief create outcomes - buy the car, make the plans, act as if success is inevitable
Jamie bought a bigger car before getting pregnant, expecting to need it for a baby. She ended up needing it for twins. She also declared she would be on the podcast, which happened exactly as she predicted.
Letting go of expectations and controlling what you can control leads to better fertility outcomes
Jamie stopped worrying about embryo numbers dropping from 42 to 14 to 10, focused only on diet, exercise, lifestyle and mindset. She didn't stress during the two-week wait and let doctors give results rather than testing early.
When fertility affects your daily life and every aspect of your personality, it's time to get mindset help
Jamie recognized she was in victim mode about pregnancy announcements, others' vacations, and daily situations. She didn't like who she had become and knew she needed help to get out of the funk.
Spiritual signs will guide you to make the right decisions if you stay open to receiving them
When Jamie was unsure about proceeding with IVF transfer at 6mm lining, she received a tarot card about making hard decisions and a motivational quote saying 'begin' - she took it as a sign and proceeded successfully.
Victimhood affects every area of life, not just fertility - recognizing this pattern is the first step to transformation
▶ 7:42When you surrender to receiving help and stop resisting IVF, success rates dramatically improve
▶ 9:34Daily manifestation journaling with specific affirmations creates powerful mindset shifts during fertility treatment
▶ 22:58Signs and spiritual guidance become visible when you're open to receiving them during fertility challenges
▶ 26:28Numbers and statistics don't determine your outcome - being willing to be the outlier changes everything
▶ 44:58Investing in mindset work is essential - you can't go into fertility treatment with a victim mentality and expect success
▶ 37:48Preparation and belief create outcomes - buy the car, make the plans, act as if success is inevitable
▶ 38:50Letting go of expectations and controlling what you can control leads to better fertility outcomes
▶ 19:34When fertility affects your daily life and every aspect of your personality, it's time to get mindset help
▶ 11:32Spiritual signs will guide you to make the right decisions if you stay open to receiving them
▶ 30:45“You need perfect numbers and statistics to succeed with fertility treatment”
CONSIDER: You can be the outlier - numbers don't determine individual outcomes when mindset is aligned
“IVF is a last resort and means you've failed at natural conception”
CONSIDER: IVF can be embraced as powerful help when you surrender resistance and accept support
“Fertility struggles only affect your reproductive life and can be compartmentalized”
CONSIDER: Victim mentality spreads to every area of life and must be addressed holistically
“I fucking crushed the IVF process.”
“Mindset is everything. If you even like, if any woman is listening to this and you have resonated with any kind of dark feelings that I have shared on this journey, just go into Roseanne's program.”
“I'm fertile as fuck.”
“If I was still in the mindset that I was when I came into your program and I went into IVF like that, I don't think we would be talking right now.”
“I need to get the fuck out of this headspace.”
“God universe source is good, is good all the time, and is smiling upon you.”
“It's a fucking sign. Like, if this the sign of all signs, I was like, I just gotta do it.”
“You attract what you put out there. And if your mindset, if you're not in the right headspace, then you're going to attract everything that you don't want.”
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We are biologically wired to hate uncertainty because our primitive brain interprets the unpredictable as dangerous
Rosanne explains that our reptilian brain tells us uncertainty means our lives could be at risk, which is why most women default to fear and chaos instead of taking a constructive approach to the unknown.
Step one in handling uncertainty is to prepare by getting stronger on multiple levels - mental, spiritual, physical, emotional, and intuitive
Rosanne teaches that most women are badass in only one gear, typically intellectual, but the fertility journey requires strength across all dimensions because zingers come from every angle throughout this marathon journey.
Secondary infertility pain is as real and valid as primary infertility - when your family isn't complete, that suffering matters
Kara struggled with PCOS and miscarriage while trying for baby #2, going through a year of darkness before finding success through mindset work at age 26 weeks pregnant during recording.
Judging other people's fertility struggles reflects the judgments we hold about ourselves - we have one finger pointing out and three pointing back
Rosanne addresses the tendency to dismiss secondary infertility stories, explaining how Kara's journey from PCOS and miscarriage to 26 weeks pregnant offers lessons for all women regardless of their specific circumstances.
