Yulia shares how she transformed from heartbreaking miscarriage to pregnancy in just a few months by refusing to stay stuck in misery. After a silent miscarriage at 38, she made radical decisions including moving to Berlin, stopped obsessive tracking, and conceived naturally while creating the life she truly wanted.
YuliaAge 38· natural· BabyBefore
Devastated after silent miscarriage at 38, afraid of becoming the woman who can't get pregnant, obsessively tracking cycles
Key Shift
Refused to stay in misery, made bold life decisions aligned with desires, stopped controlling fertility and started receiving
After
Confident, living dream life across multiple countries, naturally pregnant and thriving
Yulia's journey began with a devastating silent miscarriage at 38, where she discovered at a 12-week scan that her pregnancy hadn't developed. Rather than falling into despair, she made a crucial decision to seek help and refuse to become 'the woman who can't get pregnant.'
Through mindset coaching, Yulia learned to shut out age-related fertility fears and other people's horror stories. She discovered how to focus solely on her own journey rather than absorbing societal messages about fertility after 35.
Yulia's breakthrough came when she stopped obsessive fertility tracking and made bold life decisions aligned with her desires. During her spontaneous move to Berlin, she conceived naturally by shifting from forcing to receiving energy around fertility.
Within months, Yulia transformed from heartbroken and fearful to confidently pregnant and living her dream life across multiple countries. Her story demonstrates how refusing to stay stuck in old patterns can create rapid, dramatic positive changes in fertility outcomes.
“I didn't want to fall into the trap of now being the woman who can't get pregnant, starts going down a spiral, thinking that something's wrong with her body. Just being down on myself.”
— Yulia▶ 10:14
Recovery time varies, but you don't have to stay stuck in misery. Yulia conceived naturally just months after her silent miscarriage by doing mindset work and refusing to take on limiting beliefs about her fertility.
“We got pregnant right away, and I was like, oh, well, see, this was easy. This was meant to be.”
— Yulia▶ 6:27
Yes, absolutely. Yulia got pregnant naturally at 38 just months after a silent miscarriage by focusing on mindset work, stopping obsessive tracking, and making life decisions aligned with her true desires.
“I looked at it in a different way. It was almost like my body was so excited to get pregnant that it was pretending to be pregnant even though the actual pregnancy wasn't developing, and that's a beautiful thing.”
— Yulia▶ 30:36
A silent miscarriage is when you have no symptoms but discover at a scan that the pregnancy isn't developing. Yulia coped by refusing to see it as fertility failure and reframing it as her body's enthusiasm for pregnancy.
“Instead of kind of instead of doing the things that you're supposed to do, following the rules or, like, measuring it, you know, using the ovulation stick every month, which we did for a while and didn't work, suddenly we had this freedom of just let's just like, who cares about any of that?”
— Yulia▶ 20:44
Not necessarily. Yulia used ovulation sticks and temperature tracking for months without success, then conceived naturally the month she stopped all tracking and focused on enjoying her relationship and life.
“Stay focused on you and your story and how it has nothing to do with anybody else. And that was a big revelation. I just think it's a huge one, actually.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 15:24
Focus on staying in your lane and not taking on other people's experiences as your own. Yulia learned to shut down voices about age-related fertility problems and horror stories, focusing only on her own journey.
“Conceiving is receiving is what you kept telling us. When we moved made the decision to move to Berlin, it had freed us and freed me from all these preconceived notions I had about what it takes to get pregnant.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 21:25
It means creating space and openness rather than trying to control every aspect of conception. Yulia discovered this when she stopped rigid tracking and conceived naturally while focused on living her dream life.
Yulia's step-by-step approach to moving from miscarriage trauma to natural conception
Make the decision to not stay stuck
Refuse to become 'the woman who can't get pregnant' and commit to taking action toward your dream rather than hoping things change
Stay in your lane
Stop reading fertility horror stories and age-related statistics. Focus only on your individual journey and story
Release control over fertility tracking
Stop obsessive ovulation monitoring and temperature charting. Trust your body's natural rhythms instead
Make bold life decisions aligned with your desires
Don't wait for pregnancy to live your dream life. Make moves that align with who you want to be
Shift from forcing to receiving
Create space for conception by focusing on joy and life fulfillment rather than fertility metrics
You have a choice after miscarriage - stay in misery or take action toward your dream
Yulia experienced a silent miscarriage at 38 but refused to become 'the woman who can't get pregnant.' She enrolled in coaching within weeks to avoid falling into a spiral of self-blame and fertility trauma.
Staying in your lane means not taking on other people's fertility horror stories as your own
Yulia learned to shut down voices telling her that at 38, pregnancy would be difficult and full of complications. She stopped reading fertility drama online and focused only on her own story and journey.
Following rigid fertility rules and tracking can create stress that blocks conception
Yulia used ovulation sticks, temperature charting, and scientific tracking for months without success. She conceived naturally the month she stopped all tracking and just enjoyed her life and relationship.
Conceiving is about receiving, not forcing or controlling
Yulia discovered that conception happened when she stopped trying to control every aspect and created space to receive. She conceived naturally during her move to Berlin when focused on living fully rather than fertility metrics.
Making bold life decisions aligned with your desires creates space for miracles
Yulia and her husband decided to move to Berlin during COVID within weeks, then later moved to New Zealand while pregnant. Each bold decision toward their dream life coincided with fertility breakthroughs.
Quantum leaps happen when you refuse to stay stuck in old patterns
Yulia went from heartbreaking miscarriage to natural conception, international moves to Berlin and New Zealand, and complete life transformation in under 6 months by consistently choosing growth over fear.
Miscarriage can be reframed as your body's enthusiasm for pregnancy rather than failure
Yulia learned to see her silent miscarriage as her body being so excited to get pregnant that it was 'pretending to be pregnant' rather than viewing it as a sign something was wrong with her fertility.
Age-related fertility fears are other people's stories, not your truth
Yulia conceived naturally at 38 after refusing to accept stories about fertility difficulty after 35. She focused on her own journey rather than age-based statistics and conceived within months of mindset work.
You have a choice after miscarriage - stay in misery or take action toward your dream
▶ 11:00Staying in your lane means not taking on other people's fertility horror stories as your own
▶ 14:24Following rigid fertility rules and tracking can create stress that blocks conception
▶ 20:44Conceiving is about receiving, not forcing or controlling
▶ 21:25Making bold life decisions aligned with your desires creates space for miracles
▶ 23:12Quantum leaps happen when you refuse to stay stuck in old patterns
▶ 35:15Miscarriage can be reframed as your body's enthusiasm for pregnancy rather than failure
▶ 30:36Age-related fertility fears are other people's stories, not your truth
▶ 5:24“After 35, fertility becomes difficult and pregnancy is high-risk”
CONSIDER: Age is just a number - your individual story and mindset matter more than statistics
“Tracking ovulation and timing everything perfectly increases chances of conception”
CONSIDER: Over-controlling fertility can create stress that blocks conception - receiving is more powerful than forcing
“Miscarriage means something is wrong with your body or fertility”
CONSIDER: Miscarriage can be your body's enthusiasm for pregnancy and doesn't predict future outcomes
“I didn't want to fall into the trap of now being the woman who can't get pregnant, starts going down a spiral, thinking that something's wrong with her body.”
“Stay focused on you and your story and how it has nothing to do with anybody else. And that was a big revelation.”
“Conceiving is receiving is what you kept telling us. When we moved made the decision to move to Berlin, it had freed us and freed me from all these preconceived notions I had about what it takes to get pregnant.”
“You just gotta show the universe that you're serious. And that's that's what the experience was like for me. I was like, no. I'm really serious. I'm going after this.”
“I looked at it in a different way. It was almost like my body was so excited to get pregnant that it was pretending to be pregnant even though the actual pregnancy wasn't developing, and that's a beautiful thing.”
“You can't keep doing the same thing over and over again and and expect a different result. Like, that's fairly basic.”
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You are the absolute boss and decision maker of your fertility journey - not the doctors
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Limiting beliefs about fertility can persist for decades without any medical evidence and become self-fulfilling prophecies
Katie carried the belief 'there's something wrong, you can't have a baby' for 20 years starting from her teens, despite never attempting to conceive or having any medical tests to support this belief
Your desire speaking louder than fear in pivotal moments reveals your inner truth
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