Rosanne challenges women to break out of the fertility journey patterns that keep them stuck by doing different shit for 72 hours. She emphasizes that the desire to be a mom is divinely placed and requires active participation to manifest in the physical world.
Rosanne challenges women to examine whether they're where they said they'd be this year and calls out the matrix of doing the same things while expecting different results. She emphasizes that with less than two months left in the year, it's time to get strategic about creating change.
The desire to be a mom isn't God messing with you - it's your soul's calling and contract with your children. The divine depends on us to bring desires to fruition in the physical world through active participation, not passive hoping.
A practical exercise to break limiting patterns by doing the exact opposite of normal reactions. Examples include congratulating pregnant women instead of feeling jealous, communicating directly with partners, investing in yourself despite money fears, and setting boundaries by saying no.
Success comes down to the logical progression of thoughts creating beliefs, beliefs driving actions, and actions determining results. Women who beat the odds all did different shit and flipped their scripts to get out of the matrix.
“You've got to do different shit. You've got to commit to doing different shit and execute on that.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 5:19
Do different things for 72 hours - the exact opposite of your normal reactions. Congratulate pregnant women instead of feeling jealous, tell your partner what you want directly, buy something you want instead of making excuses, and take breaks instead of constantly working.
“You wouldn't have the desire in your heart if it wasn't God universe's source's will for you.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 3:34
The desire to be a mom is in your heart because it's divinely placed there - it's your soul's calling and contract with your children. God/universe doesn't mess with you by giving you desires that aren't meant for you.
“Instead of reacting like a victim, when you see a pregnant woman or a friend announces she is pregnant, be the fucking first person to congratulate her with your whole heart.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:48
Be the first person to congratulate them with your whole heart instead of reacting like a victim. Their pregnancy has nothing to do with your journey - don't feed your jealousy saboteur by running into a corner to feel sorry for yourself.
“Our results in this journey are they come down to our thoughts, beliefs, and actions. It's logical and linear and ultimately inescapable.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 13:47
Your results come down to thoughts, beliefs, and actions in a logical, linear progression according to the law of cause and effect. If you want different results, you must examine and change the thoughts, beliefs, and actions that created your current situation.
“Consider doing the exact opposite of what you would normally do.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 9:48
Do the exact opposite of your normal patterns for 72 hours. Instead of victim reactions, respond with love. Instead of avoiding difficult conversations, speak directly. Instead of making excuses about money, invest in yourself. Challenge yourself where you normally stop.
A structured challenge to break limiting patterns and create different results on your fertility journey
Block off three full days
Commit to 72 hours where you will consciously do the exact opposite of your normal reactions and behaviors
Challenge your victim responses
When you see pregnant women or announcements, be the first to congratulate them wholeheartedly instead of feeling sorry for yourself
Communicate directly
Tell your partner what you want from a place of love instead of dancing around subjects and ruminating for weeks
Invest in yourself
Buy something you want instead of making excuses about money - you're a grown woman who can figure out how to pay for things
Take intentional breaks
If you never rest at work, block off 15-minute intervals to regroup instead of constantly hard charging
Practice saying no
Set boundaries by saying no instead of being too nice and agreeing to everything
Journal your experience
Keep track of what feels different - nervousness, freedom, exhilaration - and notice the changes in your experience
If you're not where you want to be on your fertility journey, you must break out of the matrix of doing the same things and expecting different results
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by changing her approach and mindset patterns
The desire to be a mom in your heart is placed there by the divine - it's not God messing with you, it's your soul's calling and contract with your children
Rosanne teaches from her experience as a former prosecutor who conceived naturally at 43 despite years of fertility treatment failures
God, universe, source depends on us to bring desires to fruition in the physical world - we can't just lay on the couch and hope
Rosanne emphasizes active participation based on helping women across 6 continents beat the odds through conscious action
Women overcome impossible odds every day - miscarriage, stillbirth, repeated IVF failure, natural conception after treatment failure
Rosanne is living proof, having conceived naturally at 43 after years of fertility treatment failure, and her clients across 6 continents demonstrate these outcomes
Instead of reacting like a victim when you see pregnant women, be the first person to congratulate them with your whole heart
This is part of Rosanne's 72-hour challenge based on her methodology that has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true
Tell your partner what you want from a place of love instead of dancing around the subject and ruminating for weeks
Rosanne coaches type A professional women including physicians, lawyers, teachers, nurses, artists, and bankers who struggle with direct communication
If there's something you want to buy but normally blow off as too expensive, get the thing - you're a grown woman who can figure out how to pay for it
This challenges the pattern of using time and money as excuses, which Rosanne calls the lamest excuses in the world based on her 12+ years of coaching experience
Take 15-minute breaks at work instead of hard charging constantly - this makes you more productive and your employer/clients will love you more
Rosanne coaches many type A control freaky professional women including physicians, lawyers, teachers, nurses, artists, and bankers who rarely take breaks
Say no instead of being too nice and saying yes to everything - be a grown up about boundaries
This relates to Rosanne's previous episode teaching about boundaries and is part of her systematic approach to helping women break limiting patterns
Your results come down to thoughts, beliefs, and actions - it's logical, linear, and inescapable according to the law of cause and effect
This is the foundation of Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method that has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true
If you're not where you want to be on your fertility journey, you must break out of the matrix of doing the same things and expecting different results
▶ 5:19The desire to be a mom in your heart is placed there by the divine - it's not God messing with you, it's your soul's calling and contract with your children
▶ 3:34God, universe, source depends on us to bring desires to fruition in the physical world - we can't just lay on the couch and hope
▶ 4:05Women overcome impossible odds every day - miscarriage, stillbirth, repeated IVF failure, natural conception after treatment failure
▶ 6:40Instead of reacting like a victim when you see pregnant women, be the first person to congratulate them with your whole heart
▶ 9:48Tell your partner what you want from a place of love instead of dancing around the subject and ruminating for weeks
▶ 10:20If there's something you want to buy but normally blow off as too expensive, get the thing - you're a grown woman who can figure out how to pay for it
▶ 10:40Take 15-minute breaks at work instead of hard charging constantly - this makes you more productive and your employer/clients will love you more
▶ 11:01Say no instead of being too nice and saying yes to everything - be a grown up about boundaries
▶ 11:52Your results come down to thoughts, beliefs, and actions - it's logical, linear, and inescapable according to the law of cause and effect
▶ 13:47“If something doesn't work out, it must not be God's will or meant to be”
CONSIDER: The desire in your heart to be a mom is placed there by the divine - roadblocks don't mean you should give up, they mean you need to try different approaches
“I can't afford to invest in myself or buy what I want”
CONSIDER: You're a grown woman who can figure out how to pay for things - using time and money are the lamest excuses in the world
“You've got to do different shit, mama.”
“You wouldn't have the desire in your heart if it wasn't God universe's source's will for you.”
“Using time and money are the lamest excuses in the world. You have a brain. Use it.”
“Women have babies every fucking day despite crazy odds. My ladies and I are living proof.”
“You were not created to be a weak, feckless being. You were given the gift of imagination, logic, reason, and intuition to leverage toward your destiny.”
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Limiting beliefs about fertility can persist for decades without any medical evidence and become self-fulfilling prophecies
Katie carried the belief 'there's something wrong, you can't have a baby' for 20 years starting from her teens, despite never attempting to conceive or having any medical tests to support this belief
Your desire speaking louder than fear in pivotal moments reveals your inner truth
When told 'this might be your only chance' after Katie's second trimester loss, her immediate internal response was 'fuck that' - her desire refusing to accept limitation
The pain and struggle of your fertility journey disappears once you have your baby in your arms - nothing else matters
Trish, who struggled for years before conceiving her daughter Geordie and is now pregnant again, shares that the relief and magnitude of love outweighs all the grief, sadness and disappointment from the journey.
You are the absolute boss and decision maker of your fertility journey - not the doctors
Diana applied this mindset shift to conceive her son and now has two daughters, ages 2 and 2 months. She uses these same techniques for career decisions and all life choices.
