Rosanne AustinDiscovery Hub
Teaching2025-11-24·21 min

EP352: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Gratitude and Faith on Your Fertility Journey

EP352: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Gratitude and Faith on Your Fertility Journey

Rosanne teaches how gratitude and faith are practical, feminine tools for finding peace on the fertility journey. She explains how to practice 'yes, and' thinking and stack evidence for faith through present-moment gratitude.

True Gratitude Goes Beyond Thank You

Rosanne distinguishes between polite thank-yous and true gratitude as a neck-down, embodied experience. She explains how real gratitude acknowledges all facts - good, bad, and ugly - through 'yes, and' thinking rather than denial.

Building Faith Through Stacked Gratitude

The more gratitude experiences you stack, the more evidence you build for faith that things work out for you. Rosanne shares how she transformed from a prosecutor who scoffed at faith to someone with unshakeable belief.

Feminine Energy and Fertility Success

Conception is fundamentally about receiving, making gratitude and faith essential feminine practices. Rosanne explains how type-A women must develop these receptive qualities to succeed on their fertility journey.

Preparing for Motherhood Through Gratitude

Building strong gratitude and faith muscles during your fertility journey prepares you for the challenges and fast pace of motherhood. These practices become essential tools for savoring moments with your future children.

Questions This Episode Answers

How can I practice gratitude during fertility struggles without being in denial?

None of gratitude, sincere gratitude is about denial. In fact, it's quite the opposite. It is an acknowledgement of what is and being grateful for what is

Rosanne Austin8:03

Practice 'yes, and' thinking - acknowledge your pain AND find something to be grateful for in the moment. True gratitude doesn't require denial but acknowledges all facts while choosing to focus on the good alongside the difficult.

Why are gratitude and faith important for fertility success?

Conceiving and having your baby is the most fucking feminine thing you will ever do. Conceiving is all about receiving.

Rosanne Austin18:00

Gratitude and faith are feminine energies essential for conception, which is about receiving. They keep you open and receptive rather than closed off by bitterness, and they build evidence that things work out for you.

How does gratitude help during failed fertility treatments?

Your current circumstances may look like shit, but they are no indicator of what is to come.

Rosanne Austin8:23

Gratitude helps you see the whole constellation of facts, not just the negative ones. It keeps you present and moving forward instead of stuck in past failures, while building evidence for faith that things work out for you.

What's the difference between saying thank you and true gratitude?

I really see gratitude as something that we experience from the neck down. This is a spiritual and physical experience rather than something that we just sort of toss aside and rubber stamp

Rosanne Austin2:33

True gratitude is a neck-down, felt experience of being present with what you're receiving, while saying thank you can be just a polite, memorized response. Gratitude is spiritual and physical, not just intellectual.

How do I build faith when my fertility journey feels hopeless?

The more gratitude you stack, the more reasons you fucking have to have faith. If you made a list of all the good shit that has shown up in your life, you'd have every fucking reason to have faith.

Rosanne Austin14:25

Stack gratitude experiences by acknowledging all the good that has happened in your life. The more gratitude you build, the more evidence you have to support faith that things work out for you.

How to Practice Gratitude During Fertility Struggles

A practical approach to maintaining gratitude without denial during challenging fertility moments

  1. 1

    Acknowledge the whole truth

    Practice 'yes, and' thinking - acknowledge your pain AND find something to be grateful for in the moment

  2. 2

    Feel it in your body

    Experience gratitude from the neck down as a spiritual and physical feeling, not just an intellectual exercise

  3. 3

    Stack your evidence

    Make a list of all the good things that have happened in your life to build evidence for faith

  4. 4

    Stay present

    Look people in the eye when expressing thanks and be fully present in moments of gratitude

All Teachings 8

TeachingEmpowering1:57

True gratitude is a neck-down, feminine experience that acknowledges all facts - good, bad, and ugly - through 'yes, and' thinking

Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by developing this embodied relationship with gratitude rather than intellectual understanding.

ReframeReframing4:48

Gratitude does not require denial about anything in your life - it's an acknowledgment of what is true, including the good, bad, and ugly

Women who succeed on the fertility journey learn to find gratitude even in dark moments, which keeps them rooted in truth and opens doors to peace during treatment failures.

TeachingEmpowering14:25

The more gratitude you stack, the more reasons you have to have faith - gratitude builds evidence for believing things work out for you

Rosanne transformed from a prosecutor who scoffed at faith as superstition to conceiving naturally at 43 by stacking gratitude experiences that built unshakeable faith.

TeachingEmpowering18:00

Conceiving and having your baby is the most feminine thing you will ever do - conceiving is all about receiving

Type-A professional women who excel at masculine energy must develop feminine receptivity to succeed on the fertility journey, as demonstrated by Rosanne's own transformation from prosecutor to mother.

TeachingChallenging18:20

Bitterness blocks your baby - the more time you spend in gratitude, the more open you become to receiving the good coming for you

Women sitting in corners saying 'nothing works out for me' cannot be open to receiving their babies, while those who cultivate gratitude develop the receptivity needed for conception.

TeachingEmpowering8:23

Your current circumstances may look like shit, but they are no indicator of what is to come

Rosanne's own journey from years of fertility treatment failure to natural conception at 43 demonstrates that current circumstances don't predict future outcomes.

TeachingEmpowering16:18

You are a miracle - the chances of your mom's egg being hit by your dad's sperm to create your unique soul and personality

This perspective helped Rosanne shift from seeing herself as broken to recognizing she was built for more, leading to her natural conception after years of treatment failure.

TeachingEmpowering18:41

You need gratitude and faith muscles strong for motherhood - your kids will challenge you and babies grow fast

Women who develop gratitude practices during their fertility journey are better equipped to savor each moment as mothers and handle the challenges of raising children.

Episode Tone
6 empowering1 reframing1 challenging

Key Teachings 8

True gratitude is a neck-down, feminine experience that acknowledges all facts - good, bad, and ugly - through 'yes, and' thinking

1:57

Gratitude does not require denial about anything in your life - it's an acknowledgment of what is true, including the good, bad, and ugly

4:48

The more gratitude you stack, the more reasons you have to have faith - gratitude builds evidence for believing things work out for you

14:25

Conceiving and having your baby is the most feminine thing you will ever do - conceiving is all about receiving

18:00

Bitterness blocks your baby - the more time you spend in gratitude, the more open you become to receiving the good coming for you

18:20

Your current circumstances may look like shit, but they are no indicator of what is to come

8:23

You are a miracle - the chances of your mom's egg being hit by your dad's sperm to create your unique soul and personality

16:18

You need gratitude and faith muscles strong for motherhood - your kids will challenge you and babies grow fast

18:41

Perspectives 2

Gratitude means being in denial about problems or pretending everything is fine

CONSIDER: True gratitude acknowledges all facts - good, bad, and ugly - through 'yes, and' thinking that keeps you rooted in truth

Faith is superstition or wishful thinking

CONSIDER: Faith is practical evidence-stacking based on all the good that has already shown up in your life

Quotable Moments

Your current circumstances may look like shit, but they are no indicator of what is to come.

Rosanne Austin8:23

Bitterness is going to be the thing that eats you alive and blocks your baby.

Rosanne Austin18:20

Conceiving and having your baby is the most fucking feminine thing you will ever do. Conceiving is all about receiving.

Rosanne Austin18:00

The more gratitude you stack, the more reasons you fucking have to have faith.

Rosanne Austin14:25

You are a miracle. Whether you feel that way today or not, borrow a cup of my faith if you need to.

Rosanne Austin16:18

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