Learning to Receive
Referenced in 13 episodes. 4 Miracle Mamas credit this framework as part of their breakthrough.
Who It Worked For
Reconnected with intuition, learned she was worth investing in, practiced surrender while maintaining desire
Baby girl
Developed Hell Yes/Hell No intuition, surrendered to all conception possibilities, became an engaged participant in treatment, stopped focusing on statistics
Became a mama
Learned to surrender control, trust her intuition, and receive rather than force outcomes
Currently 22 weeks pregnant
Stopped apologizing for her desire, learned to receive, shifted from self-care manipulation to self-love, chose to welcome embryo in love rather than fear
Baby girl
Teachings
Breakthroughs 2
You must be in the vibration of what you desire to receive it - act as if it's already here
Maria moved her bed to make room for the bassinet before conceiving, practiced being a wife before marriage, and made space for baby items before they arrived - all manifestations showed up including a Moses basket from a high school friend she hadn't spoken to in 14 years.
Treatment shame blocks your ability to receive help and conceive your baby
Anne spent years hiding from being seen at fertility clinics, feeling like she didn't belong there, which blocked her from being open to treatment. Only when she released this shame and became an engaged participant did she conceive and reach 21 weeks pregnant.
Teachings 20
Bitterness blocks your baby - the more time you spend in gratitude, the more open you become to receiving the good coming for you
Women sitting in corners saying 'nothing works out for me' cannot be open to receiving their babies, while those who cultivate gratitude develop the receptivity needed for conception.
Your ability to receive comes from a deep conviction that you are worthy of having what you want, but 95% of your unconscious program may not believe that
Many women have unconscious programs running that receiving is greedy or selfish, or that anything they do for themselves takes away from their family, which blocks them from receiving their baby.
Conceiving is all about receiving, and women with poverty mindset tend to be the worst receivers
This connects to the previous episode on poverty vs abundance mindset - if you don't believe you deserve good care or investment in your dreams, you limit your ability to conceive.
Mother Teresa exemplifies abundance mindset despite taking a vow of poverty - she could call any CEO and borrow their plane because she knew how to receive
She demonstrates that abundance mindset isn't about having money but about knowing you can get whatever you need by asking for it and being open to receiving.
Jealousy at its core is something you are denying yourself - it's all about what you allow yourself to have or receive
Rosanne explains that when women are jealous of others doing IVF or conceiving naturally, they're actually denying themselves those same opportunities through their own limiting stories.
Conceiving is all about receiving, so jealousy reveals what you're not allowing yourself to receive on your journey
This connects to Rosanne's repeated teaching across episodes that women succeed when they stop denying themselves opportunities and become resourceful in figuring out solutions.
Fertility is more than biology and hormones - there's a spiritual aspect where we serve as vessels for beings to come through us, not from us
Moy describes the energetic understanding of receiving rather than getting, explaining how we prepare ourselves as vessels to receive these souls rather than forcing conception to happen.
Conceiving is all about receiving, an aspect of femininity that has been stunted in women over decades as receiving has been made to seem weak or needy
Rosanne observes that women try to DIY aspects of their fertility journey they have no business managing alone, then wonder why they're not getting results, because they've been conditioned against receiving support.
Asking for help is not weakness—it's one of the key signs of strength and leadership
Natalia struggled to accept help postpartum until she realized her husband managed their move and household better than she would have, allowing her to be more present with her children
Conceiving is all about receiving - you must unfuck your feminine and reconnect with your ability to receive support, love, and what you need to succeed
Women have been trained to take on masculine traits for professional success, divorcing them from their innate feminine energy that's deeply connected to intuition and inner knowing.
Conceiving is all about receiving, so your thinking must lead you to be open to receiving
This principle underlies Rosanne's Fearlessly Fertile Method that has helped women around the world make their mom dreams come true, emphasizing feminine receptivity as core to conception.
Luxury on your fertility journey means being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually - which puts you in receiving mode
Rosanne defines this as her approach that led to conceiving Asher naturally at 43, and it's the foundation she teaches in her Fearlessly Fertile Method program to clients worldwide.
Conceiving is all about receiving, and when you're open to receiving support lavishly, you're in your feminine energy
Rosanne emphasizes this connection led to her natural conception at 43 with Asher, and it's why she teaches this approach to women doing 'the most divine feminine thing possible - creating, carrying, and giving birth to new life.'
Apologizing for your longing to be a mother blocks your ability to receive what you want - your desire exists because you're meant to be a mom
Hannah realized she had been 'apologizing for her longing for years' and believing she wasn't worthy, but when she stopped apologizing and honored her desire, she conceived naturally at 43.
Your longing to be a mother is sacred and exists for a reason - trusting that longing is the key to staying true to your path
Hannah's final wisdom to women struggling with fertility: 'that longing is there because you're meant to be a mom... that longing is sacred and it's there for a reason. Really trust it.'
Conceiving is fundamentally about receiving both physically and metaphorically - the metaphorical aspect is what creates major blocks between women and their babies
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure once she opened herself to receiving coaching and support, demonstrating how addressing receiving blocks led to immediate incremental results.
Most women set arbitrary limits on what they allow themselves to receive - only if it's covered by insurance, not too far, within a certain price range, not too weird, or they can DIY it
Rosanne identified these exact patterns in her own journey and in the incredibly accomplished women she coaches who literally paint themselves into corners, blocking support that could help them get results faster and smarter.
Type A, control freak, high-achieving women are particularly susceptible to blocking receiving because they're so used to doing things on their own and their way
As a recovering type A control freak herself, Rosanne was so caught up in doing everything herself that it wasn't until things went far off the rails that she realized getting help made sense, leading to her natural conception at 43.
Opening yourself to receiving coaching and education can lead to faster and more effective results than trying to figure it out alone
Rosanne's results spoke for themselves - years of treatment failure until she received coaching support, then natural conception at 43. She also applied this principle to birth her bestselling book by hiring an amazing team and going number one internationally.
The same principles that help women receive what they need to conceive also apply to other major goals and dreams
Rosanne broke down the blocks between herself and her son using the same approach she later used for her book - hiring support and allowing herself to receive help, resulting in both her natural conception at 43 and an internationally bestselling book.
Episodes
EP352: The Thinking Woman's Guide to Gratitude and Faith on Your Fertility Journey
2025-11-24
EP314: Fertility Fast Fact: The Fertility Miracle Equation
2025-03-03
EP312: Fertilty Fast Fact: Your Rules Are 100% Made Up
2025-02-17
EP300: Fertility Success Secret #11: Understanding the Inconvenient Truth About Jealousy
2024-11-25
EP261 It’s Not Too Late To Have Your Baby: A Conversation with Tsao-Lin Moy
2024-02-26
EP248 More Babies = More AWESOME: Natalia’s Story
2023-11-27
EP200 200th Episode Celebration: It’s All About You, Baby!
2022-12-26
EP122 HOW You Think = Life/Death of Your Fertility Dreams
2021-06-28
EP121 She Let Go of “Treatment Shame”… And Called In Her Miracle
2021-06-21
EP113 She Trusted Her Heart and Faith, Then Found Her Baby
2021-04-26
EP87 Fearless Femme: The Case For Living Your Fertility Journey LUXE
2020-10-26
EP51 The Physician Who Dared To Believe…Conceived
2020-02-10
EP19: Conceiving Is About Receiving
2019-07-08
