Rosanne challenges the belief that fertility journeys must be lived in scarcity and suffering. She introduces the concept of living your fertility journey 'luxe' - being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually - as a way to embody the feminine receptivity needed for conception.
Rosanne begins by forcefully rejecting the common belief that fertility journeys must be lived in suffering, guilt, and scarcity. She argues this mindset is complete bullshit that keeps success out of reach and eats away at resilience like a family of rats.
She redefines luxury not as expensive purchases but as being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. This puts you in receiving mode, which is essential for conception since conceiving is all about receiving.
Rosanne encourages women to admit they love pleasure, beauty, pampering, and being cherished - these are life-affirming and create vibrational alignment with your baby through 'like attracts like' since you'll naturally want to lavish the same love on your child.
She explains how living in scarcity sends out exhausted energy like a billboard saying 'we're starving here,' while living luxuriously rolls out the red carpet for new life. Her own experience conceiving Asher at 43 exemplifies this principle in action.
The episode concludes with specific suggestions for luxury living - from getting massages and eating chocolate to saying hell yes to desires and setting boundaries. She provides a four-step exercise to help listeners assess and transform their current journey approach.
“Lux is not about the money you spend. It's about the life you live and the life you will call in.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 12:02
Luxury on your fertility journey isn't about money - it's about being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually. This could mean weekly massages, meal prep help, reading for pleasure, working on mindset, connecting spiritually, going on dates, or whatever feeds your feminine energy.
“Conceiving is all about receiving. When you are open to receiving the support you desire physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually, we know you're in your feminine.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 7:12
Living luxuriously puts you in receiving mode, and conceiving is all about receiving. When you're open to receiving support lavishly, you're in your feminine energy, which is essential for the most divine feminine act of creating, carrying, and giving birth to new life.
“There is a deeply feminine part of you that absolutely fucking loves pleasure, beauty, attention, pampering, being spoiled, loved, adored, celebrated, and cherished. Get out of the closet and admit it.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 8:34
No, there's a deeply feminine part of you that loves pleasure, beauty, attention, pampering, and being cherished - these are all life-affirming things. You'll naturally want to lavish the same love on your child, so embracing these desires creates vibrational alignment through like attracting like.
“If you're living your journey begging for crumbs, you're gonna starve her out. You are literally sending out exhausted energy that's like a giant billboard on the side of the baby making highway saying, hey. Don't stop here. There is nothing for you. We're starving over here.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 10:18
Living in scarcity sends out exhausted energy like a giant billboard saying 'Don't stop here, we're starving over here.' This starves out your feminine energy and tells your baby there's no joy, happiness, or room for new life in your home.
“Take an honest look at the way you live your fertility journey now, my love. Is it the journey of a woman who is merely surviving, hanging on, trying to get through each day, or are you luxuriously thriving?”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 16:18
Ask yourself honestly: Are you merely surviving, hanging on, trying to get through each day, or are you luxuriously thriving? Look at whether your physical, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual needs are being lavishly met, or if you're living in austerity and scarcity mode.
“Get coaching. Eat the chocolate. Take the trip. Buy the shoes. Get the massage, do the treatment, take the nap, wear the lipstick, buy the fabulous bra and panties, have the second orgasm, sleep in, say full bodied hell yeses, have the courage to say no, Claim what's yours.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 11:11
Give yourself what you want. Get coaching, eat chocolate, take trips, buy shoes, get massages, take naps, wear lipstick, buy fabulous lingerie, have second orgasms, sleep in, say hell yes, have courage to say no, and claim what's yours with no apologies.
A four-step process to shift from scarcity to luxury mindset on your fertility journey
Assess Your Current Journey
Take an honest look at how you're currently living your fertility journey. Are you merely surviving, hanging on, trying to get through each day, or are you luxuriously thriving?
Examine Your Luxury Stories
What comes up when you think about living luxe? Does it have negative connotations? Do you make it wrong or selfish? These stories reveal what's standing in your way.
Define Your Personal Luxury
Separate from others' baggage and ask yourself how you choose to define luxury. Focus on being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually.
Share the Message
Text a link to this episode to someone who could benefit and share it on social media to reinforce your commitment to living luxuriously.
Living your fertility journey in guilt, shame, scarcity and austerity is complete bullshit and will keep your success out of reach
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after rejecting this mindset, and her clients experience similar transformations when they stop living in misery mode on their journeys.
Luxury on your fertility journey means being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually - which puts you in receiving mode
Rosanne defines this as her approach that led to conceiving Asher naturally at 43, and it's the foundation she teaches in her Fearlessly Fertile Method program to clients worldwide.
Conceiving is all about receiving, and when you're open to receiving support lavishly, you're in your feminine energy
Rosanne emphasizes this connection led to her natural conception at 43 with Asher, and it's why she teaches this approach to women doing 'the most divine feminine thing possible - creating, carrying, and giving birth to new life.'
There is a deeply feminine part of you that loves pleasure, beauty, attention, pampering, being spoiled, loved, adored, celebrated, and cherished - and these are all life affirming things
Rosanne teaches that embracing these desires creates vibrational alignment with your baby, as you'll lavish the same things on your child - demonstrating like attracts like.
When you allow your desires for pleasure and beauty to be met, it feels like anything is possible and puts you in alignment with your baby
Rosanne explains this creates a vibrational match because you'll naturally want to celebrate, pamper, love, adore and cherish your child the same way - like attracts like.
Living your journey begging for crumbs sends out exhausted energy like a billboard saying 'Don't stop here, we're starving over here'
Rosanne contrasts this with how she and her husband were 'saying massive hell yeses to ourselves and living our journey with so much joy' when Asher came to them.
Asher came when Rosanne and her husband finally rejected the idea they had to spend another day miserable and started rolling out the red carpet with joy and possibility
In the cycle prior to conceiving Asher naturally at 43, Rosanne hadn't felt so alive in years, and conceiving had nothing to do with diets, lotions or potions - it was about the joyful place where he would grow.
You must engage in life affirming activities because you are trying to call in life
Rosanne teaches this principle led to her natural conception at 43 and drives the transformations she sees in her successful clients worldwide.
Conceiving Asher had nothing to do with diets, lotions, or potions - it had everything to do with Rosanne being the joyful place where he would grow and thrive
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure, and in the cycle prior to conceiving she hadn't felt so alive in years while living luxuriously.
Luxury isn't frivolous - it's an attitude, a way of seeing yourself as worthy and honoring your desires
Rosanne teaches this mindset shift to women in her Fearlessly Fertile Method program worldwide, helping them transform from surviving to thriving on their journeys.
Living your fertility journey in guilt, shame, scarcity and austerity is complete bullshit and will keep your success out of reach
▶ 3:35Luxury on your fertility journey means being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually - which puts you in receiving mode
▶ 6:39Conceiving is all about receiving, and when you're open to receiving support lavishly, you're in your feminine energy
▶ 7:12There is a deeply feminine part of you that loves pleasure, beauty, attention, pampering, being spoiled, loved, adored, celebrated, and cherished - and these are all life affirming things
▶ 8:34When you allow your desires for pleasure and beauty to be met, it feels like anything is possible and puts you in alignment with your baby
▶ 9:06Living your journey begging for crumbs sends out exhausted energy like a billboard saying 'Don't stop here, we're starving over here'
▶ 10:18Asher came when Rosanne and her husband finally rejected the idea they had to spend another day miserable and started rolling out the red carpet with joy and possibility
▶ 12:33You must engage in life affirming activities because you are trying to call in life
▶ 10:50Conceiving Asher had nothing to do with diets, lotions, or potions - it had everything to do with Rosanne being the joyful place where he would grow and thrive
▶ 13:45Luxury isn't frivolous - it's an attitude, a way of seeing yourself as worthy and honoring your desires
▶ 7:44“Fertility journeys necessarily require austerity, suffering, and living as a prisoner to guilt, shame, and scarcity”
CONSIDER: Living your fertility journey luxuriously - being lavishly supported physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually - puts you in the feminine receiving mode needed for conception
“Wanting pleasure, beauty, pampering and luxury on your fertility journey is selfish or greedy”
CONSIDER: These desires are deeply feminine and life-affirming, creating vibrational alignment with your baby because you'll naturally want to lavish the same love and celebration on your child
“Living in scarcity and struggle on your fertility journey shows dedication and worthiness”
CONSIDER: Living this way sends out exhausted energy like a billboard saying 'don't stop here, we're starving' - the opposite of what attracts new life
“The idea you have to live your fertility journey as a prisoner to guilt, shame, not enoughness, that's too good for me, that's for other people, lack scarcity, penny wise, pound foolish decisions, and endlessly living as a hostage to your past, your mistakes, or the draconian view that this chapter in your life necessarily requires austerity, starvation like sacrifice, or that going for your dreams is somehow fucking selfish is complete and utter bullshit.”
“Conceiving is all about receiving. When you are open to receiving the support you desire physically, emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually, we know you're in your feminine.”
“There is a deeply feminine part of you that absolutely fucking loves pleasure, beauty, attention, pampering, being spoiled, loved, adored, celebrated, and cherished. Get out of the closet and admit it.”
“If you're living your journey begging for crumbs, you're gonna starve her out. You are literally sending out exhausted energy that's like a giant billboard on the side of the baby making highway saying, hey. Don't stop here. There is nothing for you. We're starving over here.”
“You are trying to call in life. You must do and engage in life affirming activities.”
“Get coaching. Eat the chocolate. Take the trip. Buy the shoes. Get the massage, do the treatment, take the nap, wear the lipstick, buy the fabulous bra and panties, have the second orgasm, sleep in, say full bodied hell yeses, have the courage to say no, Claim what's yours.”
“Lux is not about the money you spend. It's about the life you live and the life you will call in.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
The Fertility Miracle Equation is Perception plus your Ability to Receive equals Miracles - this is what allows women to collapse time and space on their fertility journey
Women come to Rosanne's programs and get and stay pregnant in 12 months after years of suffering by changing their perceptions and ability to receive.
Your perception shapes your reality because it controls how you interpret everything coming into your world, based on whether you believe life is happening to you or for you
If you're 50 trying to conceive, you cannot afford to perceive you have no options or see circumstances as dead ends - you must see them as building blocks taking you to supportive communities of young moms in their 50s.
The desire in your heart to be a mom is there because it was fucking meant for you - this desire is your divine assignment
Rosanne conceived naturally at 43 after years of treatment failure by following this principle. Recent podcast guests Elise and Mikayla both held babies after choosing belief over their circumstances.
Belief always precedes the miracle - you must believe even in the darkest moments, not just when things feel good
All of the recent podcast success stories featured women who believed bigger than their current circumstances. A fertility expert interviewed confirmed that most fertility challenges are figureoutable.
