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Beth

6 years journey from US · Fearlessly Fertile Method

IVF

The Transformation

Before

Called herself a 'loser,' felt like a victim, disconnected from her identity, comparing herself to others constantly

Key Shift

Started asking 'what would I do if I liked myself again?' and began investing in herself, switched to a more supportive medical team

After

Confident, trusting her intuition, advocating for her needs, reconnected with who Beth really is

In summary: Beth's story demonstrates that ivf success after mindset transformation, medical advocacy leading to conception, and identity shift from victim to empowered. despite Recurrent Miscarriage and MTHFR Gene Mutation after a 6 years journey.

Breakthroughs3

  • You become your own silver bullet when you stop being a victim and start trusting your intuition about your medical team

    Beth switched fertility doctors when her first doctor refused to do transfers without a drug that made her feel bad, leading to successful conception with the new doctor who accommodated her request

    1:43
  • You have to start liking yourself again before your fertility dreams can come true

    Beth's transformation began when she asked 'what would I do if I liked myself again?' and started investing in herself, leading to conception within a year

    12:50
  • Cleaning out your mental house is as important as preparing your physical body

    Beth physically cleaned and purged her house while doing mindset work, creating space mentally and physically that coincided with her husband's new job and successful conception

    15:02

Teachings4

  • The playground bully in your head can be more destructive than any medical diagnosis

    Beth called herself a 'loser' for years after multiple losses, which affected her work performance, friendships, and overall confidence until she learned to silence those thoughts

    9:35
  • Success stories exist everywhere when you change your focus from fear to possibility

    Beth discovered her friend had babies naturally at 36, 39, and 40 after IVF failed, plus other success stories 'came out of the woodwork' when she stopped focusing on low-vibe message boards

    17:16
  • Fear and faith both require believing in something you can't see - you just have to choose

    Beth acknowledged choosing fear throughout her journey until she consciously started choosing faith, which coincided with her successful conception at 21 weeks pregnant

    38:49
  • You must become the woman who succeeded before you actually succeed

    Beth had to rebuild her confidence, self-worth, and decision-making abilities before her IVF transfer worked, demonstrating identity shift preceding physical success

    42:50

Reframes1

  • Multiple losses don't make you a loser - they make you a warrior who keeps showing up

    Beth experienced losses at natural miscarriage, twins at 25 weeks, 13 weeks, and 12 weeks but reframed from 'loser' to 'someone who doesn't give up' and conceived successfully

    6:10

Quotable Moments6

  • the fucking silver bullet when all the chips are down is going to be you. It's going to come down to you.

    Rosanne Austin1:43
  • what would I do if I liked myself again? And I started doing things that I would do if I liked myself.

    Beth12:50
  • I was done, like, being a victim. Like, I was done, like, letting people just, like, tell me what was right and what was wrong.

    Beth21:12
  • don't let that playground bully push you around in your head. And, like, I was, like, I've got the worst freaking playground bully ever.

    Beth41:02
  • I needed to, like, start to like myself again. I did. Like, I needed to like myself again. I needed to, like, find Beth again

    Beth45:35
  • You have to be the woman who succeeded before you actually succeed.

    Rosanne Austin42:50

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