How She Beat "Unexplained" Fertility Issues: Mette's Story #ttc #ivfjourney #fertilityjourney
Mette shares her journey from 7 failed IVF cycles and recurrent miscarriages to a successful pregnancy at 23 weeks by working with Rosanne Austin on mindset and trusting her body's wisdom over medical protocols.
Breakthroughs 3
Your body can tell you what's not working - trust that wisdom over external protocols
Mette's body told her the aggressive IVF protocols were harmful; when she switched to natural cycles against clinic recommendations, she got pregnant
Success happens when you stop surviving and start living your actual life
Mette took 3 months off to go to Italy, drink, and enjoy life before her successful cycle - the opposite of deprivation mindset
You must create an attractive environment for a baby - stress and self-criticism don't qualify
Mette realized her stressed, self-critical state wasn't welcoming to a baby; when she shifted to self-love and relaxation, she conceived
Teachings 3
When you speak your truth to medical professionals, even when they doubt you, powerful results follow
Mette demanded natural IVF cycles despite clinic resistance, got 12 eggs vs usual 5-6, and conceived on final embryo
Fear lives from your neck up - your baby will live from your neck down
Mette learned to trust her body's wisdom instead of her fearful thoughts, leading to successful pregnancy
The journey transforms you into the mother you're meant to be
Mette reflects that going through this difficult journey with mindset work made her a different woman and will make her a better mother
Quotable Moments 4
“I had a feeling that I was just surviving, not living.”
— Mette“It was when I actually stopped the suffering, the change happened.”
— Mette“Fear lives from your neck up. Neck down is where your baby's gonna live.”
— Rosanne Austin“Trust yourself. Follow your heart and your soul, and never give up.”
— Mette
Questions This Video Answers
How did mindset coaching help with IVF failures and miscarriages
“I had a feeling that my body was telling me this is not the way. So that was my body and my soul instead of my head leading the way.”
— Mette
Mette learned to trust her body over medical protocols, took breaks to enjoy life, and advocated for gentler treatments. After 7 failed IVF cycles, she demanded natural cycles and conceived on her final embryo.
Can you get pregnant naturally after multiple IVF failures
“We're going to do this all natural. Like, a natural cycles and no hormones, nothing. And now I'm pregnant.”
— Mette
Yes, Mette conceived using her final IVF embryo but with completely natural cycles and no hormones, against her clinic's recommendations. She trusted her body over medical protocols and succeeded.
What to do when doctors doubt your fertility treatment choices
“You were strong enough to stand up and say, yes. I am sure about what I want.”
— Rosanne Austin
Stand firm in your knowing. Mette insisted on natural IVF cycles despite clinic resistance, saying she was sure about what she wanted. She got 12 eggs versus her usual 5-6 and conceived successfully.
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Key Points 6
Your body can tell you what's not working - trust that wisdom over external protocols
Success happens when you stop surviving and start living your actual life
When you speak your truth to medical professionals, even when they doubt you, powerful results follow
Fear lives from your neck up - your baby will live from your neck down
You must create an attractive environment for a baby - stress and self-criticism don't qualify
The journey transforms you into the mother you're meant to be
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