Mette from Denmark shares her journey from unexplained infertility and multiple IVF failures to natural pregnancy at 23 weeks. After seven egg retrievals and two miscarriages, she transformed her mindset through Rosanne's program and conceived naturally during her final attempt with no hormones.
Mette· natural· Currently 23 weeks pregnantBefore
Stressed, losing hope, feeling like her body was shutting down after seven egg retrievals and two miscarriages
Key Shift
Learned to trust her body, advocate for natural protocols, and take time to live her life fully
After
Relaxed, confident in advocating for what she wanted medically, full of self-love and trust in her body
Mette reconnects with her kindergarten sweetheart after 16 years apart through a Facebook comment. They quickly move in together and decide to start a family, only to face unexplained infertility after six months of trying.
After multiple failed IUIs and IVF attempts with two miscarriages at seven weeks, Mette realizes her body is telling her something important. Despite having access to Denmark's public fertility system, the treatments aren't working and she's losing hope.
Mette discovers Rosanne's podcast during her darkest period and realizes mindset is the missing piece. She joins the Fearlessly Fertile Method program and begins transforming her relationship with her body and her fertility journey.
After mindset work, Mette advocates for a milder IVF protocol against medical advice and produces double her usual eggs. She then takes three months off to live life fully in Italy before returning for her final natural transfer.
Mette conceives naturally on a hormone-free cycle and uses mindset tools to navigate early pregnancy without fear, taking minimal monitoring despite her history of miscarriage. She's now 23 weeks pregnant with her Danish love story's happy ending.
“we're going to do this all natural. Like, a natural cyclist and no hormones, nothing... and now I'm pregnant”
— Mette▶ 18:25
Yes, natural conception is possible even after multiple IVF failures. Mette from Denmark conceived naturally after seven failed egg retrievals by changing her approach to trust her body and advocate for gentler treatments.
“I said to them, listen up. I've been trying this so many times. It's so, so, so hard for my body. I just want to do the the more I would say, not safe. But, you know, I want to do the the less IVF”
— Mette▶ 16:02
You can tell your fertility clinic what treatment approach feels right for your body, even if they express doubt. Mette insisted on a milder IVF protocol and produced double the eggs despite medical concerns.
“my body telling me that this is you are actually doing harmful things to me, to your body, and this needs to be a safe place where a baby can grow”
— Mette▶ 10:50
Listen to your body's wisdom about what feels harmful versus healing. Mette realized her body was telling her that heavy hormone protocols weren't working and switched to natural cycles.
“I had some time off. Me and my husband, we went to Italy, like, you know, drinking, eating, doing all of this, not thinking about baby”
— Mette▶ 19:58
Yes, taking time off to live your life can be exactly what your fertility journey needs. Mette took three months off to travel and enjoy life before her successful natural conception.
“this time, when it actually stayed, we only took a blood test. We took no pregnancy test at home. We took one blood test and then only one blood test”
— Mette▶ 24:15
Use mindset tools to trust your body instead of falling into fear patterns. Mette took only one blood test instead of constant monitoring after two previous miscarriages.
“they couldn't find anything wrong... and now I'm pregnant”
— Mette▶ 10:53
Yes, unexplained infertility can be overcome through mindset work and trusting your body's wisdom. Mette had unexplained infertility for years before conceiving naturally.
Your body may be telling you when current treatments aren't working—listen to that wisdom instead of just following protocol.
Mette had seven egg retrievals with heavy hormone protocols that failed, but when she listened to her body and requested a natural cycle with no hormones, she conceived and is now 23 weeks pregnant.
You can advocate for what feels right for your body, even when medical professionals doubt your choices.
Mette told her clinic she wanted a milder IVF protocol after seven failures, and despite their concerns about fewer eggs, she produced twelve eggs—double her usual number—and conceived naturally.
Taking time off to live your life—including drinking wine in Italy—can be exactly what your fertility journey needs.
Mette took three months off after multiple IVF failures to travel to Italy with her husband, drinking and eating freely without thinking about babies, before returning to conceive naturally.
When you've had recurrent miscarriage, trusting your body during early pregnancy requires active mindset work to avoid fear patterns.
Mette had two prior miscarriages at seven weeks but used mindset tools to take only one blood test during early pregnancy instead of constant monitoring, trusting her body to sustain the pregnancy.
Your fertility struggle can teach you self-love and create the exact mother you're meant to be.
Mette describes her transformation as 'the biggest love for myself I could ever imagine' and realizes the difficult journey made her into the woman and future mother she's meant to be.
The mind-body connection in fertility isn't just theory—it shows up in real results like egg production and pregnancy success.
Mette typically produced 5-6 eggs with heavy hormone protocols but produced 12 eggs when she advocated for a gentler approach that felt better to her body, ultimately conceiving naturally.
Creating a safe, stress-free environment in your body is essential for conception and pregnancy.
Mette realized her body was telling her mind that stress was harmful and she needed to create 'a safe place where a baby can grow and where there's protection and love.'
Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is go completely natural after multiple treatment failures.
After seven egg retrievals and hormone treatments failed, Mette chose a completely natural cycle with no hormones for her final embryo transfer and conceived successfully.
Your body may be telling you when current treatments aren't working—listen to that wisdom instead of just following protocol.
▶ 10:50You can advocate for what feels right for your body, even when medical professionals doubt your choices.
▶ 16:02Taking time off to live your life—including drinking wine in Italy—can be exactly what your fertility journey needs.
▶ 19:58When you've had recurrent miscarriage, trusting your body during early pregnancy requires active mindset work to avoid fear patterns.
▶ 24:15Your fertility struggle can teach you self-love and create the exact mother you're meant to be.
▶ 26:30The mind-body connection in fertility isn't just theory—it shows up in real results like egg production and pregnancy success.
▶ 17:03Creating a safe, stress-free environment in your body is essential for conception and pregnancy.
▶ 10:50Sometimes the most radical thing you can do is go completely natural after multiple treatment failures.
▶ 18:25“You must suffer and sacrifice everything to be successful on your fertility journey”
CONSIDER: Success comes when you stop suffering and start living your life fully
“Medical experts know best and you should always follow their protocol recommendations”
CONSIDER: You can advocate for what feels right for your body and get better results than standard protocols
“my body telling me that this is you are actually doing harmful things to me, to your body, and this needs to be a safe place where a baby can grow”
“we're going to do this all natural. Like, a natural cyclist and no hormones, nothing... and now I'm pregnant”
“I had a feeling that I was just surviving, not living”
“it was when I actually stopped the suffering, the change happened”
“the biggest love for myself I could ever imagine”
“From your neck up is where fear lives. Neck down is where your baby's gonna live”
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Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
Your body can tell you what's not working - trust that wisdom over external protocols
Mette's body told her the aggressive IVF protocols were harmful; when she switched to natural cycles against clinic recommendations, she got pregnant
Success happens when you stop surviving and start living your actual life
Mette took 3 months off to go to Italy, drink, and enjoy life before her successful cycle - the opposite of deprivation mindset
You are the one fixing you, healing you—your medical team supports you, but ultimately you must believe in yourself
Agata went from trusting doctors completely through two failed IVF cycles to trusting herself and conceiving through IUI on the fourth attempt, now 26 weeks pregnant.
When treatment isn't working, stepping back to reassess your approach can reveal better options that align with your heart
Agata had never heard of IUI despite two failed IVF cycles. When she trusted her instinct for less invasive treatment and tried IUI, she conceived on the fourth attempt.
