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Interview

You Can’t Google Your Way to a Miracle.

Rosanne Austin discusses how past relationship wounds and self-worth issues inevitably show up in fertility journeys, and why Googling for fertility answers can become a trap.

Teachings 2

  • The way we do one thing is the way we do everything - if you struggle with feeling worthy of love, you'll struggle with feeling worthy of having a baby with ease

    Austin demonstrates this through client example of someone who had lingering self-worth issues from relationships that directly translated into fertility struggles and questions about deserving motherhood

  • After miscarriage, many women instinctively turn to Google to find what they did wrong and how to control the outcome, but this approach doesn't work for fertility

    Client testimony about researching supplements, exercises, and diet after miscarriage, trying to 'work herself into having a healthy baby' by following instructions perfectly

Perspectives 1

  • The professional formula of working hard and doing the right thing to get what you want doesn't apply to fertility

    Client explains how this formula worked in her professional life but failed when applied to trying to conceive

Quotable Moments 2

  • the way we do one thing is the way we do everything

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  • I thought I could work myself into having this healthy baby

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Questions This Video Answers

Why doesn't researching fertility help you get pregnant

I thought I could work myself into having this healthy baby. I just get all the instructions. I will do it, and I will follow it to a t.

Rosanne Austin

Research becomes a trap when you use it to try to control fertility outcomes. After loss, many women turn to Google to find what they did wrong, but trying to 'work yourself into having a healthy baby' with perfect adherence to supplements and protocols doesn't work because fertility isn't like professional success.

How do relationship issues affect fertility

if you feel all fucked up about whether or not somebody could love you, how would that not translate into questions about whether or not you wanna have a baby or whether you're worthy of having a baby with ease

Rosanne Austin

Self-worth issues from past relationships directly translate into fertility struggles. If you feel uncertain about whether someone could love you, this shows up as questions about whether you're worthy of having a baby or deserving motherhood with ease.

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Key Points 3

The way we do one thing is the way we do everything - if you struggle with feeling worthy of love, you'll struggle with feeling worthy of having a baby with ease

After miscarriage, many women instinctively turn to Google to find what they did wrong and how to control the outcome, but this approach doesn't work for fertility

The professional formula of working hard and doing the right thing to get what you want doesn't apply to fertility