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Natalia

2 years journey from Singapore · Fearlessly Fertile Method

Conceived at 44natural

The Transformation

Before

Controlling everything, miserable, disconnected from family, shame about wanting third child

Key Shift

Released control, built trust in herself and faith, challenged limiting beliefs about being too old and selfish

After

Relaxed, trusting intuition, present with family, confident in decisions based on values

In summary: Natalia's story demonstrates that natural conception at 44 despite pcos and hypothyroidism, conceived during week 8 of program after 2 years trying, and overcame lack and scarcity mindset about wanting third child. She conceived naturally at 44 despite PCOS and Hypothyroidism after a 2 years journey.

Breakthroughs1

  • If it doesn't have to be your way or the highway right now—it's not the end of the world if timing doesn't work out one cycle

    Natalia relaxed when neighbors interrupted her planned conception evening, had a beer, and conceived that night after releasing the pressure and control around perfect timing

    16:54

Teachings10

  • Control comes from fear—when you're afraid of not getting pregnant, the way to tackle that becomes extreme controlling over everything you eat and do

    Natalia spent 2 years controlling every aspect of her life—diet, acupuncture, TCM, avoiding alcohol—which made life miserable and disconnected her from her family until she learned to surrender

    7:22
  • Structure, consistency, and community are what women need for sustainable change—not one-on-one coaching

    Natalia initially wanted individual coaching but thrived in group coaching, connecting with other women's stories and receiving support that helped her build confidence and trust in herself

    13:09
  • When you surround yourself with like-minded women with big hearts and get out of lack and scarcity, you open yourself up to life-changing transformation

    Natalia felt connected and supported by other women in the group program, which helped her challenge limiting beliefs and build the confidence needed to conceive naturally at 44

    13:49
  • Make decisions based on your values, not what a doctor says

    Natalia became more discerning and chose natural conception over IVF based on her intuition that her baby was coming naturally, despite medical recommendations

    15:22
  • Build trust in yourself and faith in something bigger—your baby is observing you and will come when ready

    Natalia developed intuition that her son was coming and sending signs, including believing he sent the neighbors to help her relax before conception

    23:28
  • Self-worth based on productivity is dangerous—you need to be a human being, not a human doing

    Natalia developed postpartum physical issues from pushing through pain and overwork, leading to depression when she couldn't perform, until she learned to just be present with her children

    28:09
  • Asking for help is not weakness—it's one of the key signs of strength and leadership

    Natalia struggled to accept help postpartum until she realized her husband managed their move and household better than she would have, allowing her to be more present with her children

    35:25
  • Challenge the stories you tell yourself—where do they come from and what's driving them

    Natalia identified and challenged beliefs that she was 'too old' and 'too selfish' for wanting a third child at 44, which freed her to conceive naturally

    38:27
  • Your body is an instrument that will make your dreams come true, but you need to give her time and love her

    Natalia had to rebuild trust with her body both during conception at 44 despite PCOS and hypothyroidism, and again during postpartum recovery from physical issues

    39:59
  • Have a growth mindset—this is happening for you, not to you, and you'll become a better version of yourself

    Natalia's fertility struggle and postpartum challenges made her more compassionate, present with her children, and able to receive help from her husband

    40:40

Reframes1

  • You can be completely grateful for what you have and desire more—those two things are not mutually exclusive

    Natalia at 44 already had two daughters but knew her family wasn't complete, overcame shame about wanting more and conceived naturally despite PCOS and hypothyroidism

    2:35

Quotable Moments7

  • You can be completely grateful for what you want and desire more. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.

    Rosanne Austin2:35
  • I think the control came from my fear. I was so afraid of not getting pregnant that the way to tackle that was to be extremely controlling over everything.

    Natalia7:22
  • After years of doing this, what do I know women need? Structure, consistency, and community.

    Rosanne Austin13:09
  • I made decisions that were based on my values. Not based on what a doctor said, based on my values.

    Natalia15:22
  • Maybe my son has actually sent his neighbors out. Maybe he actually wanted them to come and say, hello, mama. You know, have a bit of fun before I arrive.

    Natalia23:58
  • Asking for help is not weakness. It's actually one of the key signs of strength.

    Rosanne Austin35:25
  • Your body is there to support you. It's an instrument that is gonna make your dreams come true, but you need to give him time and you need to love her.

    Natalia39:59

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