Natalia shares her journey to conceiving her third child naturally at 44 despite PCOS and hypothyroidism. After two years of struggle and miscarriage, she used the Fearlessly Fertile Method to overcome lack and scarcity mindset, conceiving during the 8th week of the program.
NataliaAge 44· natural· Baby boyBefore
Controlling everything, miserable, disconnected from family, shame about wanting third child
Key Shift
Released control, built trust in herself and faith, challenged limiting beliefs about being too old and selfish
After
Relaxed, trusting intuition, present with family, confident in decisions based on values
Natalia already had two daughters but knew her family wasn't complete. Despite PCOS and hypothyroidism making conception difficult before, she spent two years trying for a third child while battling shame about wanting 'too much.' Her fear manifested as obsessive control over diet, timing, and lifestyle, making life miserable and disconnecting her from her current family.
Initially wanting individual coaching, Natalia discovered the power of community through the 8-week Fearlessly Fertile Method program. Surrounded by like-minded women, she felt heard and supported while challenging limiting beliefs about being too old and selfish for wanting another child at 44.
During her cycle with two large follicles, Natalia's planned romantic evening was interrupted by neighbors. Instead of freaking out as she would have before, she relaxed, had a beer, and released control over perfect timing. She conceived naturally that night after embracing the lesson that it doesn't have to be 'her way or the highway.'
After her baby boy arrived, Natalia faced postpartum physical challenges that forced her to confront her productivity-based self-worth. Through accepting help from her husband and learning to 'just be' instead of constantly doing, she became more present with her children and discovered the strength in vulnerability.
“I always knew from the very beginning that my dream would be to be a family of five and have three kids, and I always knew I wanted that. The only thing and the only difference was that I was now getting older. I was already fourteen, and I was telling myself in my head, I'm too old.”
— Natalia▶ 6:21
Yes, Natalia conceived naturally at 44 despite having PCOS and hypothyroidism. After struggling for 2 years, she used mindset work to release control and trust her body, conceiving during week 8 of the Fearlessly Fertile Method program.
“You can be completely grateful for what you want and desire more. Those two things are not mutually exclusive. Right? And most people are too small minded to look at it in that way.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 2:35
Recognize that you can be completely grateful for what you have and still desire more—these aren't mutually exclusive. Challenge the stories telling you you're being selfish or asking for too much, and focus on what will make your family complete.
“I think the control came from my fear. I was so afraid of not getting pregnant that the way to tackle that was to be extremely controlling over everything, everything I ate, everything I did. It was all based on this control control about everything, and it became an obsession.”
— Natalia▶ 7:22
Control comes from fear and makes life miserable. When you're controlling everything you eat, do, and plan around fertility, it becomes an obsession that disconnects you from enjoying your current life and family.
“After years of doing this, what do I know women need? Structure, consistency, and community. For anything to be sustainable and for us to truly integrate the lessons that are gonna help us change our lives, you need those things.”
— Rosanne Austin▶ 13:09
Yes, group coaching provides structure, consistency, and community that creates sustainable change. Women connect with similar stories, feel supported, and build confidence together rather than staying isolated in shame.
“I also became more discerning. I I made decisions that were based on my values. Not based on what a doctor said, based on my values. I knew I wanted to have my third baby naturally.”
— Natalia▶ 15:22
Make decisions based on your values, not what doctors say. Trust your intuition—if you have a strong sense your baby is coming naturally, honor that feeling even if medical recommendations suggest otherwise.
“It doesn't have to be my way or the highway right now, right here in this moment. And I started to relax. I started to to enjoy the evening. I I actually had a beer, something that I had prohibited myself forever.”
— Natalia▶ 16:54
Release the belief that it has to be 'your way or the highway' in one specific moment. If timing doesn't work out one cycle, you have many other opportunities throughout the year. Relaxing often leads to better outcomes.
Natalia's process for identifying and overcoming beliefs that were blocking her path to motherhood
Be curious about your stories
Question the stories you tell yourself about being too old, too selfish, or asking for too much
Trace their origins
Look at where these stories come from—often they're ingrained from childhood or societal messaging
Dissect the driving forces
Understand what's behind these beliefs and why you've held onto them
Challenge with evidence
Look for proof that contradicts these limiting beliefs and examples of women who've succeeded despite similar circumstances
You can be completely grateful for what you have and desire more—those two things are not mutually exclusive
Natalia at 44 already had two daughters but knew her family wasn't complete, overcame shame about wanting more and conceived naturally despite PCOS and hypothyroidism
Control comes from fear—when you're afraid of not getting pregnant, the way to tackle that becomes extreme controlling over everything you eat and do
Natalia spent 2 years controlling every aspect of her life—diet, acupuncture, TCM, avoiding alcohol—which made life miserable and disconnected her from her family until she learned to surrender
Structure, consistency, and community are what women need for sustainable change—not one-on-one coaching
Natalia initially wanted individual coaching but thrived in group coaching, connecting with other women's stories and receiving support that helped her build confidence and trust in herself
When you surround yourself with like-minded women with big hearts and get out of lack and scarcity, you open yourself up to life-changing transformation
Natalia felt connected and supported by other women in the group program, which helped her challenge limiting beliefs and build the confidence needed to conceive naturally at 44
Make decisions based on your values, not what a doctor says
Natalia became more discerning and chose natural conception over IVF based on her intuition that her baby was coming naturally, despite medical recommendations
If it doesn't have to be your way or the highway right now—it's not the end of the world if timing doesn't work out one cycle
Natalia relaxed when neighbors interrupted her planned conception evening, had a beer, and conceived that night after releasing the pressure and control around perfect timing
Build trust in yourself and faith in something bigger—your baby is observing you and will come when ready
Natalia developed intuition that her son was coming and sending signs, including believing he sent the neighbors to help her relax before conception
Self-worth based on productivity is dangerous—you need to be a human being, not a human doing
Natalia developed postpartum physical issues from pushing through pain and overwork, leading to depression when she couldn't perform, until she learned to just be present with her children
Asking for help is not weakness—it's one of the key signs of strength and leadership
Natalia struggled to accept help postpartum until she realized her husband managed their move and household better than she would have, allowing her to be more present with her children
Challenge the stories you tell yourself—where do they come from and what's driving them
Natalia identified and challenged beliefs that she was 'too old' and 'too selfish' for wanting a third child at 44, which freed her to conceive naturally
Your body is an instrument that will make your dreams come true, but you need to give her time and love her
Natalia had to rebuild trust with her body both during conception at 44 despite PCOS and hypothyroidism, and again during postpartum recovery from physical issues
Have a growth mindset—this is happening for you, not to you, and you'll become a better version of yourself
Natalia's fertility struggle and postpartum challenges made her more compassionate, present with her children, and able to receive help from her husband
You can be completely grateful for what you have and desire more—those two things are not mutually exclusive
▶ 2:35Control comes from fear—when you're afraid of not getting pregnant, the way to tackle that becomes extreme controlling over everything you eat and do
▶ 7:22Structure, consistency, and community are what women need for sustainable change—not one-on-one coaching
▶ 13:09When you surround yourself with like-minded women with big hearts and get out of lack and scarcity, you open yourself up to life-changing transformation
▶ 13:49Make decisions based on your values, not what a doctor says
▶ 15:22If it doesn't have to be your way or the highway right now—it's not the end of the world if timing doesn't work out one cycle
▶ 16:54Build trust in yourself and faith in something bigger—your baby is observing you and will come when ready
▶ 23:28Self-worth based on productivity is dangerous—you need to be a human being, not a human doing
▶ 28:09Asking for help is not weakness—it's one of the key signs of strength and leadership
▶ 35:25Challenge the stories you tell yourself—where do they come from and what's driving them
▶ 38:27Your body is an instrument that will make your dreams come true, but you need to give her time and love her
▶ 39:59Have a growth mindset—this is happening for you, not to you, and you'll become a better version of yourself
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“If you already have children, you're being selfish and asking for too much to want another”
CONSIDER: You can be completely grateful for what you have and desire more—those two things are not mutually exclusive
“You need to control everything perfectly to conceive—diet, timing, environment”
CONSIDER: Control comes from fear and letting go allows good things to happen
“Personal fertility issues require individual coaching for privacy and customization”
CONSIDER: Structure, consistency, and community are what women need—surrounding yourself with like-minded women creates transformation
“You can be completely grateful for what you want and desire more. Those two things are not mutually exclusive.”
“I think the control came from my fear. I was so afraid of not getting pregnant that the way to tackle that was to be extremely controlling over everything.”
“After years of doing this, what do I know women need? Structure, consistency, and community.”
“I made decisions that were based on my values. Not based on what a doctor said, based on my values.”
“Maybe my son has actually sent his neighbors out. Maybe he actually wanted them to come and say, hello, mama. You know, have a bit of fun before I arrive.”
“Asking for help is not weakness. It's actually one of the key signs of strength.”
“Your body is there to support you. It's an instrument that is gonna make your dreams come true, but you need to give him time and you need to love her.”
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Frameworks & Methods
Common Beliefs
Structure, consistency, and community are what women need for sustainable change on the fertility journey - not one-on-one coaching
Rosanne explains after years of coaching that women spend too much time siloed and alone in shame, and that group coaching provides the necessary elements for integration
Lack and scarcity stories about money, time, other people, and shame make us small and prevent conception
Natalia was shaming herself for wanting a third child when she already had two, telling herself she was too old and selfish
Trust your intuition when medical advice leads with fear - if it doesn't feel right for you, reject it
Maria walked out of an IVF clinic despite having pear-sized fibroids and a miscarriage because it felt cold and sterile, choosing naturopathic care instead and conceiving naturally at 34.
Don't abdicate your authority to machines or people who don't know what you're made of
At 23 weeks pregnant, Maria rejected ultrasound technicians trying to create fear about her baby's weight, calling four different OBs who confirmed one pound at 23 weeks is normal.
