Kate
4+ years journey from Ireland · Fearlessly Fertile Method
The Transformation
Before
Apologetic about wanting a baby, swinging between fragility and denial, feeling like a passenger in her own journey
Key Shift
Embraced her desire fully, built a comprehensive support team, and learned to witness thoughts without believing them
After
In pilot mode rather than autopilot, resilient after setbacks, committed to her vision
In summary: Kate's story demonstrates that natural conception after years of unexplained infertility, conceived naturally month after failed ivf, and more fertile at 34 than younger. She conceived naturally at 34 despite Unexplained Infertility and Low AMH after a 4+ years journey.
Teachings6
You can be more fertile years later than when you were younger if you address root causes
Kate went from retrieving 4 eggs in her first IVF to 19 eggs two years later after addressing autoimmune thyroid issues and inflammation through functional medicine.
▶ 18:34Come out of the closet as a woman who wants a baby - give yourself permission to be obsessed
Kate spent years apologetically trying not to be obsessed with getting pregnant, which kept her from taking strategic action until she embraced her desire fully.
▶ 15:25Be a historian of your successes, not just your failures
Kate learned to recognize improvements like pain-free periods and natural fertile windows instead of focusing only on negative pregnancy tests and failed cycles.
▶ 23:00Two things can be true at the same time - you can feel heartbroken and still believe in your dream
Kate was devastated when two perfect grade AA embryos didn't implant, but maintained her belief that motherhood was still possible, leading to natural conception the next month.
▶ 34:34Ask for what you want or more - gratitude shouldn't make you small
Kate was using gratitude to diminish her desires, feeling greedy for wanting a baby when she had other blessings, until she learned to embrace abundance.
▶ 29:21You don't have to believe your thoughts - witness them and choose which narratives to follow
Kate learned to witness self-bullying thoughts without acting on them, choosing daily whether to be kind to herself or listen to fear-based narratives.
▶ 40:24
Reframes2
Unexplained infertility means anything is possible, including the good outcomes
Kate had unexplained infertility for 4+ years, then conceived naturally at 34 the month after failed IVF with perfect grade AA embryos.
▶ 26:17Don't stop believing things are happening to you - maybe they're happening for you
Kate reframed her body's inability to conceive as protection, realizing pregnancy wouldn't have been healthy with her autoimmune inflammation at the time.
▶ 25:05
Quotable Moments6
“come out the closet as a woman who wants a baby”
— Rosanne Austin15:25“I always tell women that means anything is possible, like even the good shit”
— Rosanne Austin26:17“be a historian of your successes and not just your failures”
— Rosanne Austin23:00“my name is Kate and I'm not leaving without my babies”
— Kate36:59“two things can be true at the same time”
— Rosanne Austin34:34“ask for what you want or more”
— Rosanne Austin29:21
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